What do you think? Is bald attractive? Can bald succeed in this world full of so called perfect looking people with hair?
First let me ask you a question. Are you bald man or balding man? If you are, this website is for you!
This website is for young balding or already bald men that are looking for answers!
And it is about how to acquire these great traits as a bald or balding young man:
High confidence
Exceptional physical fitness
Style
High sex appeal
Exceptional mental fitness
Living up to your true potential
And all that creates Attractive Bald Man, the most attractive man in the world – YOU!
I was once one of you – very young and going bald. I know how it feels. It’s not fun! It’s awful! But I managed to turn my situation around. And I want the same for you my fellow young going bald man!
I went from being a low self confident miserable young going bald man to become an ultimate winner in life. And you have to do the same!
Let me show you how!
Why bald can be incredibly attractive video:
http://youtu.be/hsMcWLgYn50
Now, do you hate being bald? Does it paralyze you? Does it take your positive bold life energy out of you? If it does, you are on the right place to do something about it.
I believe I have the answers for you my bald friend. I strongly from the depth of my heart believe, that there is no a better place you could land. I have a solutions to your baldness problem.
No, I am not going to sell you any worthless, dangerous hair growth products here. I actually consider myself to be the biggest enemy of these in the world. And I am very proud of that!
If you want to jump right into the most important, please check my Secret Formula for Bald Mans Attractive Life.
Bald man go and strive only for the best! video:
https://youtu.be/qHDKWliUCUw
And yes! Bald Is Very Attractive! And bald can wildly succeed in this world! Let me show you the top secrets of every Attractive, successful Bald Man out there. And once you know it and apply it, you’ll be one of these guys. You’ll become Attractive Bald Man! You’ll become one of the most attractive men out there. Yes, that’s what baldness can do for you!
Why do you hate your baldness? I know the answer to that question. I am bald. So I am qualified!
You hate your baldness, because other people don’t find bald attractive. Especially if you are very young man. Now, why do you think that is? You most likely think it is because of how you look. Is that correct? Almost every bald man out there thinks that by being bald, he looks less attractive. But that is very far from actually being truth!
So, why than is baldness not attractive? Why would baldness stop you from wild success in life? It is because, the low self confidence and self esteem it brings. And with that, it steals the life energy out of you. You stop living a great life you were supposed to live. You start being less daring, less bold! That has to stop! It’s time to kick ass and wildly succeed as a bald man!
Healthiest baldness cure video:
https://youtu.be/jhJMf-WKm2M
What if I told you, that the most attractive man in the world is actually bald guy. And it is true. If you dig deeper into this site, you’ll find who that is.
Why is this bald guy the most attractive man in the world? Because he managed to do what a lot of us can’t pull off. But all of us bald men should. It’s in our control. It takes work. But ultimately, it is available to every bald man out there.
It’s time to do what it takes to become attractive bald man. It’s killing time! It’s time to stop holding back in life and start living bold, attractive successful life. It’s time to kill it in life as a bald man!
Becoming one of the most attractive men in the world is the answer. Keep reading my future very attractive bald friend.
So are you attractive bald man? Whatever your answer to that question is, it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter, because you can become a very attractive bald man. You can become the most attractive man out there. And it doesn’t matter at all that you are bald. Baldness is your advantage!
Perfect is unattractive
The world is full of men who are trying to be perfect. In truth, they just come off as stiff, boring, uninspiring and totally unattractive. We humans can’t relate to people like that! We hate perfect. It’s a big turn off!
Imperfections like our fantastic bald heads are real! And people respond very well to real. It’s why we like real flowers that wilt, not perfect plastic ones that never change. So my future very attractive bald friend, use your bald head to your advantage! Show the world what you’re really like. That’s what the world and all people in it is looking for and attracted to.
There is huge attractiveness to imperfection. This is the essence of the Japanese principle of wabi-sabi. Wabi-sabi values character and uniqueness over a perfect facade. Imperfections and reality makes things perfect and attractive!
It’s a beautiful way to put it: Leave the poetry in what you are. When something becomes too perfect, or unreal, it loses it’s soul and attractiveness.
Why do you think, one legged male athletes out there in the world are dating the most beautiful and intelligent women? It’s very similar to baldness. The character and strength of a person with this imperfection and the ability to actually not mind it and stay confident makes him incredibly attractive.
Future attractive bald man, be what you really are. Be real and stay real! Be upfront about your baldness. It’s perfect, because it’s not perfect. Leave perfect to those unattractive and boring ones. You’ll seem very genuine and very attractive and people really gravitate to that.
If for any reason you don’t like your bald head, I am happy to revel that I found the True baldness cure.
For those youngest bald men out there who are going bald way too early – in their teens and early twenties, I created these video series with articles to help them put things into the proper perspective. I was one of you! And things will be fantastic! Trust me. Your bald head doesn’t have anything to do with you being attractive. I dated some increadibly hot women in my early twenties while completely bald!
Going bald too young series:
Becoming attractive bald man is a process. And sometimes it takes a lot of work. But ultimately, it is a process you can control. And this is fantastic news for us bald guys. The question is: Are you willing to follow this process and work hard on becoming attractive bald man? I know you do! Contrary to that, going bald is not something that you can control. Follow these attractive bald mans video/article series to get on the right track of becoming attractive bald man:
Bald attractive man video series:
Bald attractive man most important step
Hairstyle for bald attractive man
Bald attractive man attractiveness killer #1
Bald attractive man attractiveness killer #2
Bald attractive man attractiveness killer #3
Bald attractive man – most effective way to get fit
Bald attractive man – introductory strength training
Bald attractive man – intensity for bald attractive man
Bald attractive man – cardiovascular exercise
Bald attractive man is bold man
Bald attractive man recreates himself
Bald attractive man stands out of the crowds
Bald attractive man avoids unhappy and unlucky
Bald attractive man – just be yourself
Attractive bald man is interesting man with passions
Bald attractive man smart sun exposure
Attractive bald man and human growth hormone
Intelligence for bald attractive man
Bald attractive man is gentleman
Bald attractive man drinks boring drinks
Attractive bald man says less than necessary
Confidence matters for attractive bald man. And it matters a lot! It might be the most attractive thing you possess my bald friend. I developed this unconventional confidence for attractive bald man series that proved to work for me when I really needed it as a young balding man. And I became incredibly confident bald man. Join me on this confidence building journey soon to be very confident attractive bald man.
Confidence for attractive bald man series:
Confidence for attractive bald man – part 1
Confidence for attractive bald man – part 2
Confidence for attractive bald man – part 3
Confidence for attractive bald man – part 4
Confidence for attractive bald man – part 5
Confidence for attractive bald man – part 6
Confidence for attractive bald man – part 7
Confidence for attractive bald man – part 8
Confidence for attractive bald mam – part 9
Confidence for attractive bald man – part 10
Bald attractive man earns his confidence
Confidence for attractive bald man – ignore everybody
Confidence for attractive bald man – like yourself
Confidence for attractive bald man – evil eye principle
Bald men can become very attractive men. Bald men can be the most attractive men in the world. Why? Well, some consider a baldness some sort of a beauty flaw. I don’t. But let’s say it is a beauty flaw for now.
If you can raise above this beauty flaw and do what is required to become bald and very attractive man, your attractiveness doubles. It gives you extra 1000 points to your overall attractiveness. It is quite a powerful thing you don’t want to leave behind!
Just take this example. A man that was born with the “perfect genes” and has everything right on his appearance. Included beautiful hair. Is he attractive? Well, if he does everything else that is required to become attractive man, he is attractive.
Now imagine bald guy. He does everything that attractive man has to do, and there is a lot to do in order to become very attractive. Plus, and this is huge! He raises above the matter that he is bald, and it doesn’t bother him at all. It’s like we mentioned before – a little beauty flaw. It’s really not a beauty flaw at all. But the modern social culture still considers it to be so.
Now suddenly, that confidence, actions and steps bald man did, are making him even more attractive than the attractive regular guy with hair.
He becomes the most attractive man in the world! Yes, these bald men are the most attractive men in the world. And this is not just me saying it. Countless evidences show this. This is very powerful! And if you are a bald man, you can belong to this group of most attractive men in the world.
The question is: What do you have to do to become the most attractive man in the world? This web site is about that.
I posted series of articles about: How to become a bald and attractive man on my web site: www.milanstolicny.com, and it had a lot of success. I didn’t realize it than, but now I know that these articles and message about how to become a very attractive bald man can help a lot of bald men out there that are looking for answers.
And here are the answers. So dive in potentially bald and very attractive man. Read, learn and apply. And, you too might become the most attractive man in the world.
It won’t be easy. There is a lot of work that’s required. But remember, you already have a huge advantage. You are bald! And that’s a gift! So, get to work future very attractive bald man. Now, let me get back to our ultimate question. Is Bald Attractive? Absolutelly!
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How to become bald attractive man – fuel for bald attractive man
How to become bald attractive man – perfect diet
How to become bald attractive man – style for bald attractive man
How to become bald attractive man – the whole package
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How to become bald attractive man – boldness for bald attractive man
How to become bald attractive man – here you are – bald attractive man
This is by far the dumbest thing I have EVER read (most of) and your spelling is atrocious.
I am losing my hair and I have been told by many women now when I shaved my head it looked awful on me.
Okay how is that then attractive? Get real, women don’t “like” bald men. They may “settle” on one but it is not their choice.
Nicholas, I totally understand you reaction to this bald issue we share. It’s quite normal. I have been there. I hated my bald head, especially when I was very young. I thought exactly like you’re saying that women don’t like bald guys.
Well that said, my friend, I am experiencing quite the opposite of what you’re saying. I am completely bald. I have been bald since 23. And I had every girl I ever wanted my soon to be attractive bald friend too. I would love to share some names and photos, but that could be little too personal. Some day I will.
Nicholas, something has to change. Your attitude, and the way you perceive yourself. Of course no women want guy who doesn’t like himself. Just start there! Start liking yourself little more my friend. Work hard, get insanely fit, be intelligent, behave like a gentleman. Have some fun. Life is too short man! And guess what? People notice. Those beautiful women will be asking you out. Seriously! They ask me out all the time! And I am bald! And I love it! Do the same Nicholas! Please! Please! Please!Start liking yourself little bit more with bald head. It’s advantage to be bald like I say on my website.
PS: I am sorry for my spelling. I am from different country and I am still working on my English spelling. Getting better with every article I write! The most important is that you understood the message. And that is what I care most about. Now go and run with it! Become Attractive Bald Man!
Milan
Then I apologize for my grammar comment since English is not your native language. But let me ask you, how is baldness perceived in your country? In the US its awful. Its mocked, and avoided by all means.
I used to be a VERY handsome guy who had ZERO trouble meeting women. As soon as my hair started thinning I noticed more and more women commented on how handsome my brother was. He has a perfect head of hair he will never lose. My sis also has a thick black head of hair. I am thinning all over.
Im not telling you what I THINK, Im telling you when I started shaving my head NO ONE thought I was attractive. I honestly thought it looked good and sported it well until I saw some pics of what I really looked like. Even my girlfriend WHO CONVINCED ME to do it told me stop, it doesnt look good.
Baldness is a disease and bald men should not be having children because then they eventually deal with the same crap.
You life is nothing but downhill when you start losing your hair.
Also Im tired of the “get fit” bullshit. Look at my website and my videos with my friend. I am fit as hell. It means nothing.
I always say you cant go 24/7 with your shirt off so all people get is your face to go by. Im 5-9 so Im not exceptionally tall either. So imagine what a bald 5-9 200 lb (of muscle) guy looks like. Now put a shaved head and tattoos. Thats me.
Don’t tell people its confidence because its not.
If you want to land a wife, you can sure. If you want to have any sort of young men’s love life experiences then you will fall VERY short unless you somehow land into GOOD money.
I see my brother and his head of never ending hair every day and hear his stories of the girls he meets.
I look at my life now and am literally disgusted with myself. We go out and girls look right through me to him. Our faces are not that much different and when I had hair I used to do better with women than him.
It makes ALL the difference unless you are rich and/or famous.
Tyler Nicholas, thank you for your comment man. No need to apologize! I am aware of my spelling being terrible. And yes it’s awfull!!! I suffer by it but I feel I have to write in English to have more impact.
I am for Slovakia, former Czechoslovakia, the country probably only known by some say the most atractive women in the world. I don’t know what’s truth about it, but certainly you can see pretty good concentration of very pretty girls here.
The baldness issue in men in this country is pretty much the same as in US. I live now in San Frsncisco Bay Area. So I think baldness and young age of guys is pretty universal issue in the world. I don’t think any culture finds it great, I am bald, cool, let’s rock and roll sort of thing. I believe every especially young man suffers by it at least in the beginning. And they choose the direction for themselves – like fight it or just embrace it.
I absolutely understand what you’re saying Tyler. You really think that girls don’t find you attractive. Trust me I thought the same. But as long as you are convinced that this is truth, people will see it true too. I was convinced about this and I experienced it many times in my early twenties.
I don’t agree with you Tyler, that baldness is a disease and that bald man shouldn’t have kids to not pass that gene on them. First, baldness comes from mothers side. If you really want to have kids who don’t go bald early, just marry a woman who’s father has hair. But I think it’s little extreme. I am bald, I had never problems with women, maybe just first couple of years when I hated it. It was turn off for them – my attitude. I think I live a happy life. I don’t feel less attractive than anybody else out there and I have a 2 year old son. So if he is bald, so be it! If he manages to be ok with it and I wish it for every bald man out there, than he will live a great life!
Tyler, we have a lot in common. We are almost the same height. You’re obviously a very fit guy! Great! I am pretty certain I am poorer than you and probably always was 🙂 I am reflecting here on your note about rich and famous bald that can only live attractive life. It’s not truth. Fame and riches can actually be a huge problem in life. I know rich and famous people out there, I trained quite few of them. Most of them are miserable, unhappy people with drug addict kids and so on. No Tyler, it’s not in the riches.
Since I am a lot like you and I never had a problem with attractive girls and women, you shouldn’t too! There are probably differences between us. You seem to be taking yourself too seriously man. I am not. You say confidence doesn’t matter much. Well, that seems to be another difference between us. If an attractive woman rejects me today in coffee shop telling me that I am bald and ugly, I will shrug my shoulders and move on. Who gives the f… And I bet you I will have a date with her week later. What would you do? Crawl under the bed and feel sorry for yourself? I hope not.
Now regarding people around you with beautifull hair. Be happy for them! Genuinely. And live a great life with whatever you have. And trust me Tyler, you have a lot! You really, really do! Now, are you going to concentrate on what you have or what you don’t have? Be very carefull which direction you choose. Go for the first one. Concetrate on what you have! And start controlling things you can control.
Anyway Tyler, thank you very much again for this open conversation. I believe many young bald men will benefit from it. Let’s keep this open and please ask more questions Tyler. Let’s discuss this further. Milan
Tyler, u can not be more wrong!!!!
I had a receding hairline since 21 so im qualified to comment, some women absolutely love a shaved head and a bald man. U need to realise that its a strength. Ur so insecure!! Get real man!! A bald head is a sharp, dominating masculine look and often linked to high testosterone!! True not all women do but who cares! Its ur advantage for the women that love it!!! I personally love my bald head and would never want lots of hair. That might seem wierd to some but i feel like lex luthor walking around and i look after my body and my brain and women fucking love the confidence. I think u need to look after urself. Get ur teeth white, get in the gym and start to look like the powerful dominant bald stud ur destined to be!!! All the best. Laurence 🙂
Actually, the women who reject you because your bald are not worth your time. I started losing my hair at 15. Traumatic at first, but I learned that there are more important things that attract women of substance; sense of humor, confidence, warmth, intelligence and,yes, a nice body helps, so keep in shape. I’m an old man now, an if I had hair I’d be very unhappy, as if I had loss the testosterone lottery or something. All the best … Ed B
True words Ed! Thank you for taking time to write your opinion here! I love it Ed!
Tyler, I forgot one more think. I am not recommending bald men to shave their heads. Don’t shave your head! I think cutting it it very short like 2-3 and even little bit more looks much better on bald man than shaved head! Don’t shave it! Just cut is short every week and a half or so. Milan
I used to do a number one with the clippers. never to skin.
The day I started growing it back EVERY female in my worked place openly told me “never shave your head again”
When I would tell people this many more women would agree, and say they just didn’t want to say anything to me.
Im happy you’re happy but the only way I’d be happy is if I had the thick head of hair I used to.
Tyler, I understand. I don’t have all the answers. For few simple reasons I am absolutely comfortable being bald. No, I wasn’t always. It took some time. Can you tell me exactly the outcome you don’t like the most about your baldness? Is it girls? Or is it you just not liking the look of yourself bald?
Hi, I’m Reddy Mouniswar 19 Years old. I’m Little Black in Color(Asian) So When i try to go ahead and shave my head, i’m having this feeling. But I Love to Always my Head. Tell me Solution
Reddy, thank you for your question. If I understand right you’re asking about the weird feeling you have when you cut/shave your hair very short.
It’s normal Reddy. You’re just not used to it yet. When you do it several times in the row, you’ll become comfortable with it. It really takes a little time to get use to. But don’t give up Reddy. Keep cutting it short and you and your environment will find it soon the better new normal hairstyle for Reddy. Good luck Reddy! Milan
Hey Tyler, I just watched your show. Pretty cool. I love it! Guy like you should never ever have any problems being bald. You’re not going to miss out. You are good looking, fit and funny as hell. Don’t be so hard on yourself! Anyway, I hope we can do one beer show together someday. I would love that! Milan
My brother I think your problem starts when u want to have a lot of women in your bed.. Screw a lot of women get one u always will love from your soul… And see if you will really care about being bald and ur brothers chain of women..
Just say to ur self I have had my days of “womanizing” let me focus and enjoy life with a woman of virtue(wife)
Thank you Kobby for your opinion. I really like it. It’s true!!! Milan
Hello Man. Please Help Me For This. I’m R.Mouniswar i’m in a medium color, today i shaved off my head for the festival Celebrations. I Decided to Keep Bald. How Can i Keep Bald? Give me Suggestions on Shaving head( I Mean twice or thrice ) . please help me Man. Bald is very Beautiful. Even though i’m in medium color i want to keep bald. Please help me
Reddy, I’ll tell you what I do. Once per week and a half I cut it in 3 mm. That’s it. It’s that simple. Set your clippers on 3 mm length and than every 10 days cut it. Off course only if you want to do it the way I do it. You can also experiment little. Go shorter or longer. It’s up to you.
Good luck with that Reddy! Let me know how it goes. Milan
I Prefer Shaving Head Once Per 2 Weeks. What do you tell Man?
Sound great to me Reddy!
Hi guys, its really encouraging to see all your positive messages about how it is to be bald. Im 24 and ive been balding since i was 12 years old. Ive been managing it with minoxydl, for me it’s as importent as food and water. Ive been trying for almost half of my entire life to deal with it by acceptance, but it’s just really fucking scary. I wouldnt know how to face peers let alone try to date women. It’s really shallow but right now ive been mostly sad because losing hair has become a constant and physical reminder that im running out time. Like the window for me to be confident and see and date women is closing, and then once i lose all my hair, everything’s gonna be so much more difficult. I’m not gonna lie it’s really difficult to face people right now, my hairline is receding visibly and im pretty sure it’s one of the reasons women dont like me.i wish i could have the courage you guys have and just go with it, shave it all off and live my life confidently.
Matt, first of all thank you very much for sharrying your experience with way too early hair loss. It can really be devastating for young man like you. I’ve been there.
My advice to you Matt, is to try to go easy on yourself. There is no need to shave your head right away. I’m actually against it. It should feel natural and right first.
So Matt, do what you’ve been doing. Try to protect your hair as much as you can. Nothing wrong with that at all. But slowly start shifting your mindset. There is also nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with going bald. And it actually can be very attractive on young man.
The problem is that usually what happens is that young man when he start seeing hair loss on his head, he turns into his worst enemy. And it can get bad.
The thing is, that girls are not really interested in a guy with hair. Not at all. They are interested in a confident, bold, bad ass independent thinker who happens also to be very physically fit, is a gentleman, knows how to interact with women, has style – dresses well and is a positive man! If he happens to be bald, the attractive girl doesn’t care! That’s what I learned from my early baldness experience.
Now Matt, start chasing those qualities I just described above. They are all very achievable. Majority of young bald men get stuck though being their own worst enemy. Not you Matt! And let’s help them all.
The world belongs to attractive bald men! Period!
Milan
Pretty much sums up your attitude towards life.You can never get girls if you think this way.See the most important assets for a man are masculinity, confidence and self worth.She might have said that you look creepy because she was used to that half-bald look of yours.Give it time to sink in and more over just because one girl told you its creepy doesn’t mean it is .Be a man , believe in yourself and trust me bro….bald is the new alpha…!
Dude, I lost my hair at 21. 21. 21. Lemme tell you, it was devastating. It took me a long time to take my hat off. When I would sleep at a friend’s house I would literally go to sleep with my hat on.
I am now 38. This guy is 100% correct.
Being bald is strange. If you are insecure and shy people will NOT buy what you’re selling them.
But if you are BOLD, CONFIDENT (faking at first is OK) and the same guy with or without hair women go for it.
Do you know why? I’ll tell you why. Some chicks like bald men. The same way that some like athletic men, brainy men, black, white, etc. you name it. BUT… even the ones who don’t really like bald men will think to themselves, how DARE this bald man act like he’s so confident. By this they are actually now have look past your hair and want to get to know you.
NOW, this does not happen overnight. It took me a good year or so before I opened up. You may have to fake it for a while, but I PROMISE you. This is a promise, if you keep on it, open up, be yourself, girls will like you for you. It’s true. It sounds lame, but it is. Please trust me (16 years bald man here). Have faith and be patient. CONFIDENCE. CONFIDENCE. CONFIDENCE. Once they see it, you’ll feel attractive.
True words Neil! Thank you for sharing your story! Keep rocking Neil! Stay confident! Live great attractive, successful life as a bald man!
Women love bald guys. Just for your info insecure brother.
Thanks for your note Done. I don’t think that applies to me though. Dig deeper into this website. Baldness is your advantage my friend!
Where are you from? Are you from Ukraine or Austria? I cant tell by your accent its quite hard for me. Anyways thanks for all your information.
Jason, I am from Slovakia. But I have been living in USA for 13 years now. I am working on that English, especially my spelling when writing. I hope I am getting better. How about you. Are you bald man? Are you attractive bald man? Are you working on to become one? What country is your home?
I think this website is great, and I don’t mind your accent one bit. I think your reply to Tyler is perfect. Because he is clearly uncomfortable in his own skin, he insults you to try to make you uncomfortable in yours. And because you have accepted yourself and like who you are, his negativity has had no apparent impact on you.
Balding is not a choice, but balding men still have a choice to make. You can be comfortable with yourself, or you can be insecure. If you choose to keep what hair you have left, and you like it and wear it with a sense of pride, women will find that attractive. If you choose to shave your head, and you like the way you look, and you are proud to be you, women will find that attractive. If you try to cover up your hair with a hat, or you try different medications or treatments, you are proving that you are not comfortable with yourself. Self confidence is the key.
Alex, I love your comment! Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts! I can already tell that that, if you are bald, you definitely are Bald Confident Attractive man.
Thank you Alex again and let’s help those young balding guys including Tyler succeed too!
When did I insult him? I said his spelling was awful. I did not know English was his second language and have apologized.
Women do NOT find self confidence attractive. When will people understand that. There are MANY handsome unconfident men women flock to.
If you are bald and confident, great. Perhaps you are a handsome bald guy. Most of us are not. I am not.
With hair I was super good looking. Without I am pretty much a troll.
I try to make eye contact with women and get the swift look away.
The only women who still think I am at all decent looking are older fat ones.
Tyler,
I really feel for you, mate. I’ve been there! Often, especially in the early days after losing my hair, I felt the same as you. So despondent! I was good looking before too, and was angry at how my life had changed for the worse.
But it got better. Slowly I got used to being bald. Slowly I even stopped noticing I didn’t have hair anymore! It took a while, but honestly mate – the sooner you come to terms with it and like your new self, the quicker you’ll see a boost in how women see you. And now I’m definitely attractive to women again.
Like the legend who writes this page, I also cut to 3mm every ten days or so. I got in shape. And I stopped being an A-hole, respected women, and basically got my mojo back.
I’m sorry to be a little blunt, but I recognise my younger self in you. If I could pass one piece of advice, it is this: it’s happened and you can’t change it – so learn to like yourself again. Everything else flows from there.
Good luck bro. I promise it gets better. Just take your time and keep your character. Whining doesn’t help.
Adam, thank you for adding your experience with early hair loss here. True words Adam!!! This perspective you’re describing here is exactly the one every young going bald man should adopt. It’s the ultimate winning strategy: You’ve been hit by early baldness, you get up, shake yourself, create a new plan, don’t be your own worst enemy, respect yourself, get fit, be confident, be gentleman, have fun and early baldness can be the best thing that ever happened to you! It certainly was my experience. Before I went bald, I was just a loser. This can be life changing! Make sure it is life changing in a right direction guys! Exactly how Adam describes it: Become bald winner everytime. Thank you Adam!
Hello,
I need support please.
I’m 29 years old now.
I used to be very fat in my teens then I worked out & lost lot of weight & started experiencing hair loss.
I did that Saw Plametto & other bullshit for a few months then just stopped.
Now I’m almost bald there is just thin mosquito type hair on top of my head & middle.
I have lot of hair & strong on sides & back.
I have a close family & money is not a problem everyone says I go for surgery or wear those new type washable wigs.
I don’t want any part of it. I just want to shave it all off but I’m afraid my mom will be very upset with me.
I don’t know why everyone is on my back its my life & my choice but I guess they care so they keep saying no.
How can I overcome this..also I’m little afraid myself I’ve never seen myself bald ever except in a buzz cut!
Just so much stress on my head :/
Jay, first of all thank you for your question. I understand that you really want make your family happy. And yes, they love you.
There is nothing wrong with very short hair. I am not necessarily suggesting you to shave it. No, I don’t think that is the right solution for you right now. Maybe sometime in the future. What I would suggest you to do, is to start cutting it short, like 7 mm with clippers. And than slowly over time go lover and lover all the way to 2 mm. It might take few years. But the transition won’t be that radical. That’s where I keep it and try to maintain it.
Regarding the wigs and hair growth products, you probably know my answer to that Jay. I understand you trying to hide it and cover it and your family is putting pressure on you. But I am sorry to be harsh here, I don’t find that acceptable for young confident man like you. Stick with your gut and do what feels right to you Jay. But i don’t think hiding and fighting it is the right way to go. You’re on the right track Jay. And I can see you as a very confident, attractive bold, bald man not too far into the future. Good luck on your journey Jay!
I buzzed my hair for a while and loved it because it was easy… no fixing, no product, etc. I still dated a lot of girls too. They didn’t seem to mind but most said they liked it better when I grew it back out. We’re pretty lucky to be men though because women are complicated and can be attracted to all sorts. I think confidence is the key. Don’t be your own cockblock. Work with what you’ve got.
Thank you for your thoughts Luke! I completely agree with the confidence you are talking about. But for some people it doesn’t come naturally. I personally believe it doesn’t come naturally for anybody. But people will probably argue with me on that. I believe confidence can be acquired through experience, humility, hard work and great physical fitness. It takes work to be confident. But it is very rewarding work. Thank you Luke!
You have a good blog going here. The advice you’re providing really is applicable to everyone, not just bald men. Living an active healthy lifestyle, projecting self confident behavior, and leading a robust lifestyle will make anyone more attractive.
I firmly believe if you keep yourself in shape and were blessed with good facial features a man will look attractive bald or not.
True words Lucas!
Exactly!
But I will just add, that even a bald man without attractive facial features will brake away from the wast average man pack and makes it to do front of it as an attractive successful man, when he applies these principles.
In short, great facial features are not required.
Lucas, thank you for you note!
I’ve been balding since I went to university at 18. I’ve been through a lot of difficulties these 2 past years and balding definitely didn’t help. Today at 21 I have my hair buzzed to 1mm and things are much better… At my young age with a shaved head I do stand out…
Recently I started going out with the hottest girlfriend I’ve dated so far (..and trust me, even I have difficulty believing it, haha).
I only found your blog 2 months ago, but looking back now there is so much truth to what you write. I wish I had found this blog earlier. Negative thinking, even if it’s the truth never helped anybody, and if you want to be accepted by others, you’ll have to learn to accept yourself first…
Nice work here Milan, keep it up! I’m sure many young men can make great use of your wise words.
Francis, thank you for your kind words! You made my day!
I am so happy, that things are turning around for you. You’re the one responsible for it! And you’re aproaching your problem the right way Francis.
I know going bald in such a young age is very tough. I’ve been there. But trust me, it only gets better from here on.
You’re on the right track Francis! Keep it up! Be proud who you are. Work hard on yourself. And everything falls into a right place. You’ll live a great attractive, successful life as a bald man. The kind of life some of the guys with the most beautiful hair can only dream about.
Go, make it happen Francis! I am proud of you! Milan
Hi I am a 30 year old bald man. I have been going bald since I was about 20 and have hated it! I shaved my head when I was 25 and have struggled with my appearance. I have been with my partner for 6 years now and we have kids and I have very happy family life. My problem is being seen in public! I always wear a cap and hate the thought of being seen without it. I feel this holds me back. Because I have worn my cap as long when out in the public eye i feel it’s gone on to long and don’t feel confident enough to be seen without it. Any advice would be appreciated.
Paul, first of all, thank you for your question. It’s a pretty common problem for a bald man who wants to make a big change, like your example, wearing hat and doesn’t know how to go about it.
Paul, I believe, that sometimes an imediate big change brings the best benefits. Just think about it. You want to do this, but you’re afraid of how you’ll feel and how your environment takes it. But you want it.
Out biggest growths come from overcoming our biggest fears. And you will imediatrlly start feeling better about yourself just by doing this heroic action step.
My advice to you Paul would be to do 30 day no hat trial and see how you like it. No strings attached. If you don’t like it after 30 days, go back to hat. If you like it, don’t wear it anymore.
And do it however uncomfortable you feel. Do it! We are all humans. And we all have insecurities. Every single one of us. And it’s ok to feel weird about it.
My bet would be, your overall confidence and self belief goes up. It’s a very interesting challenge Paul and a huge opportunity to face some adversity. And that’s exactly where the growth lies.
Good luck with that Paul and please let me know how it went.
Milan
I know what your saying and appreciate it. I don’t talk about this to any1 apart from my partner and selected family members just posting on this is a BIG thing for me! I’m not a social network person. I really admire your outlook on life and wish I could be like that! Just can’t ever see myself getting the courage to ever go public without my hat, I know it’s stupid and theirs more things worse than being bald! People say its not sore being bald but sometimes it’s hard. But it is good to talk to people like yourself.
Paul, I absolutely understand! It’s not stupid at all. Being bald is incredibly large pain many men suffer by. And this is exactly why I created this web site. I myself am maybe very comfortable by being bald, but I have some serious issues myself I don’t share with anyone but the family. It’s all very individual.
Thank you Paul!
Hello Milan, my name is Craig, im from Liverpool England. I am 26 years old and have been balding since around the age of 23, its been a extremely difficult process and it hasn’t got any easier only worse as I lose more hair, I have been shaving to number zero for the past couple of years with the odd attempt to grow it slightly only to be depressed at the outcome, the last three years have been horrendous and even still i can’t quite believe what is happening. My brother and father both have no signs of balding whatsoever my mother’s father still has a decent amount of hair for 86year’s old but my father’s dad however also became bald in his 20s so I believe this is were i have got it from.I have lost all self confidence i once had and have became withdrawn and anti social because of it. It has gone on for long enough now and something has to give because i really can’t deal with this anxiety anymore. I do think i look terrible now and have been extremely uncomfortable with my appearance ever since. However, I was searching you tube the other day about hairloss wich I have done a million times and happened to stumble across one of your videos, this led me to watch all of your other videos and they really cheered me up and also made me laugh at times, after listening to some of your advice i began feeling some optimism wich I haven’t felt in a long Time, your confidence in yourself was transmitted to me and im sure to many of our other balding brothers. The advice you give really isv brilliant and gives me real hope in maybe overcoming this ordeal or at least finding some degree of acceptance. I have nothing left to lose now so I am going to try everything in my power this new year to become ATTRACTIVE BALD MAN. Thank you for sharing your videos and messages of encouragement. They really do mean an awful lot so thank you MILAN. and to all the people with the negative comments, please take them elsewhere because this guy is just trying to help his balding brothers. Bye.
Craig, thank you very much for your comment! You made my day! I feel honored to read your words.
I absolutely understand your pain Craig. I’ve been there. But I strongly believe there is a solution for you and many young bald guys out there. The pain in the beginning is unavoidable.
We all have to go through it. But it seams like, you are on your way up and Sky is the limit. And that’s correct! Because you as a young bald man can control a lot of things in your life. You have quite a lot of power.
I think for you now Craig, it’s time to put your baldness into proper perspective and hit the road running and acting to become an Attractive Bald Man.
And I believe baldness can be a huge advantage here. Because bald man will work hard, stay fit, will have style, will be a gentleman, will be ambitious, and many other great things that require an effort. And with that will eventually surpass other men who just don’t have to do, or are lazy to do the work. And ultimately bald man becomes the most attractive man out there.
No, I don’t take Bald Attraction project as a competition with guys with hair, and who is more attractive. But what I just described above is quite truth. I am now 37 and I see guys in my age just being plain unattractive, fat, lazy and intelligent beautiful women are not interested in them. They don’t care how much hair they have. The other qualities are important much more in this and every matter!
I dated beautiful women at young age when I was completely bald. And I was actually told by them that they like it. I don’t think they knew what they are talking about. They liked the whole package, confidence, fitness, ambition, style and fearlessness other guys out there were lacking. And it is all very attainable. Now I don’t say that because I want to brag about myself. I want to prove the point, that even the youngest bald guys out there can seriously live attractive, successful, bold, happy with their look life’s.
So Craig, again, thank you for sharing your story. It is tough indeed to be bald at a young age. But it can be a huge opportunity. And it is in my opinion. So it’s time to rock and roll with it. Go make it happen Craig! Become attractive successful bald man. And you don’t get it, you take it! And I believe you’ll take it. You’re on the right track.
Milan,thank you so much for your quick response I really appreciate it and I am also honoured to read your message, you are such a great guy for setting this website up and supporting people this way, your words have filled me with total confidence and have given me such a boost to change my mindset TODAY. I can’t thank you enough for the effort you have put into this, you have made me realise that I can be successful with the right attitude hair or no hair, thanks bro, I am happy for you that you became confident attractive bald man and now I intend to follow in your footsteps . I can’t thank you enough for your kind words and support , keep up the good work Milan , you have made my day also, PS. Your English is brilliant. Thanks man. Craig.
Thank you Craig! I am so proud of you!
If you start a bald dating site, you’ll be very rich very soon. Bald guys are just so attractive and the market is huge. So many women and gay men love bald guys, and still they believe the lies of the “hair-industry” that they are inferior. There are already sites for guys letting their fringes grow to show proudly what they got, there are sites, where they shave proudly, what they got, there are sites for guys, who even wish to be bald (and are not insane), there are alopecia fan sites – so in this free world, all is possible. The limit, as you describe it, is always self inflicted. Free yourself!
In the future there will be balding studios – to achieve a manly and handsome look…
Max, I love your suggestions and outlook for the future for bald men! You’re obviously proud of your baldness and don’t find it a problem. That’s fantastic!
“Balding studios for men to achieve handsome bald look”. I love that vision!
Thank you Max for your note here. Very interesting opinion indeed!
Bald guys are blessed by nature – a bald fringe is the most beautiful haircut and look a man can sport (maybe with a moustache). It looks so manly and handsome and beams self-confidence. And there is a fast growing crowd appreciating exactly that, or rather: finally the truth becomes obvious thanks to the free internet: People love bald guys! No need to hide anything. I mean, I really pity the guys with no self-confidence, just because they have been exposed to lies that make them feel miserable for ages, lies created, only to make money and sell toupets or hairpieces or even stupid tattoos, that fake stubble… So many famous, successful, powerful, attractive, loveable bald men, and still that bad feeling about ones own baldness. It is not loss, it is a gift, that nature is giving to you.
If you do not love yourself as a bald man, how can you accept and allow love from somebody else?
Max, I have nothing to add here. It’s a poetry. Beautifull! Thank you for your art!
Milan,
actually something more fundamental can be seen here in all these comments: It makes most obvious the Law of attraction as described by Louise L. Hay, Abraham-Hicks, The Secret, and all these wise and loving people. When you deeply believe in being bald and inferior, you will experience inferiority. If you deeply believe in the fact that you are unattractive and therefore not lovable, you will experience no love. People confuse cause and effect. If you do not allow love because of these horrible feelings and creeds, it cannot flow to you. By the way: One person who loves you, bald as you are, is enough. No need for 70 virgins. You and others are the proof, that once you throw aboard these most unhealthy beliefs, once you break through this barrier, that hinders you from being bald and happy, you create another reality. You experience being bald and attractive, having wonderful flirts or being loved like a precious jewel. Just the ones still in the darkness of ignorance cannot see it and will throw dirt at you. That is the problem bald, wise and loving people have to face sometimes. Ignorance is one major reason for suffering (besides hate and greed). Once you are out of ignorance, you are out of a least a good part of suffering.
(By the way: That idea about the bald dating site is meant seriously: You will be rich. The only one I found is limited to heterosexual persons, therefore misses a big market. It has to be well made of course, but there are so many sites to take inspiration from… Think about it.)
Max
Again Max. You said it beautifully. Let’s help all those bald guys think this way. Bald is attractive! Period!
Max I actually plan to make a gay addition to bald attraction. I live in San Francisco and deeply respect all sexuality orientations.
Thank you very much again Max for your wonderful comments and insights!
I respect your work. Thank you and good luck to you!
Hi Milan,
just mathematical thing came to my mind. When you look around, then most bald men have a wife or girlfriend at their side. All these women obviously love bald men. You see: A lot of women find bald men attractive. So there should be someone loving searching for you, bald and unhappy single man, reading this. Please do not hide the beauty you were given! Bald self confidence is sexy.
I absolutely agree Max with that statement! Thank you!
PS: you seem like an ultimate motivator Max. You should have site like this yourself! I think you’d be great at it!
…I don’t know if I had the patience. I did not know that so much unnecesary suffering was possible. The wrong and negative creeds (e.g. “Women don’t like bald men.”, “Losing hair is a shame.”, etc.) are sometimes very strong and stubborn. Those need an ice-breaker like you with a sweet Slovakian accent. The best for you!
Max
Thank you Max! And a lot of spelling mistakes too :).
I actually have some great feedback, that this project of mine is helping bald men especially very young ones to wiew their early baldness in a different positive way. That makes me very happy.
Max, thank you again for some great tips. And please stay in touch!
Im sorry but all these comments about bald men being attractive are bullshit..Irish point of view.It can look good on some people,very few…especially not when youre small skinny pale and irish….quadrupal whammy 🙂 but most women dont like appearing cynical and negative so they defend themselves against negative stereotypes and say its about how you conduct yourself etc etc…then a goodlooking guy with a full head of hair walks into the room and their heads turn 🙂 judge by actions ,not by words..you get more attention and feel better about yourself when you have hair,bottom line.Ive received most judgement about my baldness from WOMEN….the very same things you are told by women to embrace about yourself are the very same things they fucking judge you about..I was very skinny growing up but still wore tshirts..girls commented on how skinny I was so much I stopped wearing tshirts…then a few started accusing me of being insecure..maybe people should stop trying to create positivity when there is none and just accept baldness as something negative,but its not the end of the world..one thing Ive noticed is..there is no cure,only prolonging the inevitable..I suggest shaving your head if its at a very bad compensating stage…cause you actually can look better bald than the embarrassing compensation that can occur…going bald sucks..stop trying to create some other false outlook for it..only thing is to try and accept it and distract yourself from concentrating on looks in life
John, thank you for your note. And I absolutely respect your opinion on bald man. Especially young bald man. With all my respect to all Irish bald guys out there I disagree with your statement.
Bald can be very attractive John indeed. It doesn’t come free though. It takes work. Sometimes a lot of work. But it’s for everyone to chose to take it.
So a bald man hating his bald head has a lot of options. Well, most of them choose to be miserable. And I hate seeing that.
I dated supermodels and very attractive girls and women. I don’t mean to brag about it. But haven’t I done consistently the hard work required for them to find me attractive, I doubt they’d go out with me.
Just saying this John to prove you positively wrong. Because young bald man can live a great succesfull attractive life. I am absolutely convinced about that!
And I am sorry John, but you’re wrong with your point of view about baldness. Now, I don’t know if you’re bald or not. But if you are start believing what I am saying here. Because it can change your life.
John, thank you very much again for you comment. Milan
Of course Im bald..why else would I be here..I appreciate your comment,its the way I feel for me because everyone is different.I grew up with two brothers who were considered very attractive and the talk of our small town who consistently got attention based on looks from girls with very little effort needed with personality so maybe looks have impacted me a lot through growing up..Both my brothers are balding now as well as myself and have a noticed different attitudes from girls in the late. Ive dated very attractive girls in the past also( ones that impress my present self) and feel like when I meet the girls of past they are looking at me thinking “Oh hes bald now” in a negative way,and Im so sorry but one of my best characteristics is getting a feel of where you stand with a person by body language etc and its been negative..Ive tried different ways of dealing with it..Actually went out one night and thought to myself…pretend like you have hair and dont think about it..then you get a negative commment and youre confidence goes out the door..its a real empathetic thing and everyone who isnt going bald thinks youre so self obsessed and everyone that is feels the same type of confidence battle…at the end of the day Im sorry but im in my 20’s…baldness started at 23 anf I can only speak bout my experience but I feel girls prefer hair than not. despite their defence.youre not gonna be a girls daydreaming fantasy if you fucking look like some of their fathers…anyways I know,I know..wrong attitude but id rather be disliked for showing how Im really feeling rather than be liked for promoting bullshit that I dont feel
John I have two brothers too. I am the middle one. And we are all 1 year apart. Which is also called here Irish brothers. And I was bald by 23 too. Funny how similar we are. Anyway, john I understand your feelings and attitude. My only wish is you find a way to change your perception of being young and bald. And not making your own early baldness stop you in anything! John don’t let it hold you back man! Live bold, ROCKSTAR like life as a bald man! Promise me you will!!!
dam youre positive 🙂 haha.Cheers dude,ill take your advice into account.laters
Hey Milan.
Sorry for my english I’m from Austria.
I’m 15 years old now and started losing my hair with 14. I really don’t want to get bald. Every morning I do something on my hair and then they don’t get out so much. My father is bald. My life really sucks. I was really depressed the last time and don’t wanter to go out or something. My family makes jokes about it and that makes me really sad.. I’m really sceared and I think I will not get a girlfriend In my live if I’m bald 🙁 . In the school my ex says that my hair sucks and that Im ugly so I have no self-confidence. I don’t know what to do with my live if Im bald. please help me.
Lukas, first of all, thank you for sharing your story. Yes I understand. I was one like you not that long ago. You however are experiencing early baldness very early. That is not easy Lukas. But I want to tell you right from the beginning that it gets better. But you have to help it a little.
I love Austria. It has a big place in my heart. I used to live in Wien for 3 years. Beautiful city!
Here are few things I would do in your situation Lukas.
First, don’t make girls your priority. I know it’s hard to do, but it will help a lot. Don’t worry about girls and concentrate on making yourself better at every aspect of your life Lukas. Don’t worry, they’ll eventually come. At this age where you are now, the relationships are just too shallow and quite frankly pretty dum. Don’t worry, it gets better Lukas. You must hang in there. But don’t make girls take your youthful energy away. Prioritize on your improvement and well being now!
Concentrate on yourself and on your overall improvements Lukas:
Get very physically fit, engage in doing things you love and which fulfill you.
Regarding your family, yeah I know it’s tough, but they most likely mean well. They don’t realize it’s hurting you when they make remarks about your baldness. Maybe just remind it to them.
Be ambitious Lukas. Put your youthful energy to use. Start a side business or start excelling at something close to your heart.
Now the confidence. Like I said, I was very upset about my early baldness in the beginning, but I didn’t let that destroy my positive outlook on world. You need to do the same Lukas! Try to stay positive. Count your blessings. Your confidence will rise slowly but certainly. You’ll be fine.
And later on those girls will eventually find you more attractive than any other man with hair. It’s certainly happening to me. And I don’t know any reason why not to you soon.
Lukas, my last words to you will be to just don’t give up. Your duty is to live an attractive successful ROCKSTAR kind of life even if you go bald. And you will. I am convinced about it!
No go, get rocking Lukas!
Thank you that you understand my situation and answered my comment it made me really happy you’re really cool I watched all your videos. You are the only one I can talk to because nobody understands me.You say I should stay positive but its really hard because I know nobody who has my problem at my age not even someone who is older than me. I make sport every day and don’t eat any sweets or fast food but I’m not happy with myself. I just want to enjoy my life but I cant because I think every second on my hair. I have a question how tall are you ? I’m 1,65 and my father is 1,76 and i think I will be as large as him but I think then I’m still pretty short for an bald men.
What do you think ?
Lukas, there is so many young men in the world that have the same problem – early baldness.
They all need to get through it somehow. They either do or they let their baldness hold them back. You can’t let it hold you back Lucas.
I am tall guy – 187cm but I believe hight does not matter in your overall success and attractiveness as a bald man.
What really matters is your confidence. There are so many tall men with no confidence slouching. That’s not what you want. Its way way better to be short and very confident than tall on low confidence. Hight is not important Lucas! I wouldn’t worry about that at all.
First, one disclaimer, are you sure it is not just phisiological recession first?
Second, when I was 15 a classmate of 16 was buzzed/shaved, already thinning and receding (I had a naturally big forehead but thick hair at that time, I started actually receding at the end of high school), he wore caps sometimes, well I think he was the best looking guy of the class, same goes for the whole school indeed, blue eyes, perfect head proportions and chiseled features, not even very tall, quite average, I’d say bald suited him more than hair, not that hair would have looked bad (yes I still love hair :P). Yet he seemed quite insecure and was often wearing that cap. He also didn’t look older than his age.
I think it’s about feeling sorry for losing something rather than looking bad most of the time. Losing hair is something I always associated to older age, due to my grandpa (he was almost completely bald since his early 20’s) especially the thin hippocratic wreath, although I rapidly learned that many younger people do and not necessarily they look older, depending on how they blend the remaining hair and how they gradually adjust to shorter hair.
Usually whoever can look good or great with shaved or very short buzzed hair, can look as good bald. But it is true that it limits your creative and stylistic options.
In fact I learned that hair can be perceived important by someone, as it might symbolize (but only at that level) a good health and youth. It’s more likely that one gets a “you stayed the same” after 10 years if you maintained the same hair unless noticeably grayer, because graying as well as balding, denounce a progression, Especially if one kept them long or has always the notorious “signature haircut”, even moreso than if one changed cuts continuously, making people used to his changes of style (given there were occasional shaved or close cuts). This way it’s more likely that people register “he’s losing hair and settling his hairstyle” but they will liken this look to some of his previous looks.
But the frontal impact of one that kept his signature hairstyle although, it might have gained in 10 years more aging signs in other departs, than the now bald(ing) guy, might give a more immediate you “didn’t change” vibe, but if the bald guy looks better and is fitter, they’ll notice it immediately after. ^_^
Antome, thank you for your take on early baldness and an incredible comment! A lot of young bald men will benefit from it. Thank you again Antome!
Milan, your advice for bald and balding men out there is perfect. I started going bald at the age of 17. I really did not notice until I started college at 18. Over the next two years, my hair loss occurred rapidly and I was self concious about it. I never had a problem meeting girls. Finally about a year ago, I clipped all my hair off, typically with no guard or at most a 1. I struggled with myself in the mirror for about a month and you know what happened? I manned the fuck up. I realized that being a little bitch about it was not going to get me any girls. BY THE WAY I AM ALSO 22 YEARS OLD, 5’7, AND VERY SKINNY.
Since that turning point, I have worn my bald head like a champion, even if sometimes I don’t always feel that way. I have been rejected and made fun of at times by my friends and coworkers. But you know what else? I have also been out and slept with some attractive women. A VERY SEXY GIRL EVEN LICKED MY HEAD when talking about how much she likes guys with bald heads. For every negative comment I have received, I have also received a positive one. That’s what I focus on.
To all you guys on here being negative. STOP! Bald is fucking badass and I love it. One day you will too. Comfortable is key and don’t hide it (not even with a hat). You have to wear it like a boss.
Love to all you bald guys out there especially the very young ones like myself. You have to accept that you just as when you had hair, you won’t appeal to every girl out there. This is an awesome website for guys who are self concious and/or new to being bald.
PS – My next move is to get fit, too.
Jason, thank you for your time to write this fantastic coment of yours! I am sure many young bald men in the future will read it and benefit from it!
Your attitude toward early baldness is fantastic Jason! I’ve been there, going bald at young age and I know how difficult it can be. But you too Jason are a great example of winning attitude here.
And off course, like you say Jason, bald is actually pretty attractive! You are having some great feedback and that makes me happy. There is no reason not have feedback like this.
So Jason, get little fitter, keep your confidence high, enjoy life, have fun, and sky is the limit how far you can go and how attractive successful life you can lead!
Thank you one ore time Jason!
Milan
Think about it like this, I’m sure you have some features you never liked. For me I have a big nose, maybe a couple other things I would say are not what I would have preferred. You spend time growing up getting used to these features. You accept them eventually (most do) what other choice do you have? So in my early 20’s I was a pretty good looking imperfect man with plenty of hair. Would I have traded my imperfections? Absolutely not. Those features are what made me look the way I look and I spent years adjusting to any perceived imperfections. Perceived being the key word, for as much as I disliked my nose when I was very young, it seemed it was something other people actually enjoyed. It is different, it’s unique, and it’s what makes me who I am as far as my appearance. I would rather look exactly how I look vs looking like anybody else. That is confidence, accepting your imperfections to the extent in which you would not change them if given the choice.
I’m 33 now, in my mid to late 20’s I lost most of my hair. It shattered my confidence. Everyday you look in the mirror holding onto the perception of how you should look, as if the 20 year old version was your final form. As you start to see that look change, for some of us rapidly, it’s nearly impossible for our self esteem to remain intact. I struggled for several years with the transition. Ultimately 2 years ago I shaved my head.
Now at 33, I have the highest level of confidence I’ve ever had and it’s very noticeable what that has meant for me in my personal life. My hair has become just like my nose. It’s imperfect, like my nose, I also wouldn’t change it. That’s right. I would prefer the bald uglier look to a full head of hair. I say uglier because yes, I do think I was more aesthetically pleasing with hair, but I don’t think I’m hideous without it. Why is my confidence so high? I can’t think of the last time I even thought of not having hair. I no longer look in the mirror expecting to see that 20 year old face, everyday I know exactly what I will look like, even better, this likely is my final form. Nature would be hard pressed to take anything more away from my face. Wrinkles will follow eventually, sure, but who on earth understands the aging process to this extent before 30? Bald guys do and guess what? Just about everybody else in the same age demographic doesn’t. My acceptance of appearance is final. I will never look like I did when I was 20, But I’m not 20, I’m 33, and I feel like I look pretty solid as a 33 year old. I also see so many around me just starting to notice some of the first signs of the aging process and how even that comparatively minuscule indicator is toppling their confidence. They have perhaps an even worse hell to follow than the one I endured.
I would not change my appearance if I could, I will not be having any mid life crisis, I’m very comfortable in my own skin. Call me baldy and I will smile. Damn right I’m a baldy. That’s who I am now, imperfect and all. To the point of the OP, when a person becomes this confident, it’s at another level. I don’t think many imperfect men with hair can reach this level of confidence. I doubt many perfect men with hair can reach this level of confidence. Reason being, the basis for my confidence is not rooted in appearance. Which means the confidence I have is genuine and isn’t something that can be taken away, which in turn just leads to more confidence. Most the people in this world do not have the sort of confidence the OP describes or I’m describing. It’s false confidence, based on external factors that are prone to change. Once the source of confidence becomes you, it becomes unchanging, and people, specifically women, gravitate to that.
Mike, wow! Thank you very much for taking the time to write us and share with us your baldness experience!Amazing! I have nothing to add here. You nailed it Mike!
Thank you! Milan
Hey, enjoyed reading these comments. I’ll share my recent experiences for people in a similar position, I would also like to hear any thoughts on what I’ve experienced.
So I’m thirty, live in the uk. I’ve been thinning painfully slowly for the past 12 years.
It’s been getting on top of me recently and I’ve become pretty self conscious about it, even though a girl I’ve just started seening didn’t have a problem with it.
A few weeks ago I just got the urge to shave it. so I went for 3mm (by chance seems to be the best length for my hair). My experience and feeling so far:
– most of the time I don’t like my new appearance. But it’s growing on me very slowly.
– most people I know say I look like a thug, some don’t understand why I even did it, some agree with my decision.
– I’m having a lot more encounters with girls, every time I go out, and they’re, pretty full on, stroking my head and stuff. Even last night I was getting flirty smirks in a supermarket, that has never happened before.
– the girl I’m seeing is dead againsed it. I understand how she feels but it has lowered my opinion of her. She could be a bit more understanding.
-I have more confidence in some situations but get anxious about seeing people who haven’t seen my new look.
-despite the above I don’t really want to grow it back.
Thanks for reading.
Ted
Ted, it’s quite normal to feel like this. It’s a big change. And it takes some time to get used to. I see it this way mainly.
People you know and are telling you that you look like tough are jus uncomfortable with a change. Change terrorizes the comfortable familiar. You are king of terrorizing them with your 100% positive change. This is normal. Give them some time. I also know from my experience, that people tell you stuff like that, because they see that now you’re fine with it. You’re loosing your hair and they still have it. So they think that you should be hiding it. Feeling bad about it. But you’re not. Those 3 mm you just decided to have on your head is a perfect sign of a confident bald man. Women gravitate to confident men – hence the supermarket looks you’re experiencing.
Now your girlfriend certainly doesn’t mean it bad. She’s also little uncomfortable. Give her some time. She’s going to start liking it when she reslizez, that her boyfriend is a confident man. And bald confident as you probably have seen Ted on my video is in my opinion and that’s pretty valid more attractive than confidence with hair. Why? Because it’s hard for guys to be confident going bald. And those who are are atractive magnets. But you are certainly going in that direction Ted. Fantastic! Keep rocking Ted! Don’t hold back! Live confident bold life up to your true potential! And you already do that.
Thank you for your note and question Ted!
Milan
Hey Milan , Im from Brazil. This blog is the best thing that I find , dont stop mate.
Sometimes is hard to overcome this problem. I used to have a long hair but now even the 1 or 2 mm doesnt work . Should be shaved but my problem is the people that knew me before that. I am really ashamed from them .
However Iam grateful for my life, my family, my fucking hot girlfriend and everything.
all the times when I need a shot of confidence I came here.
Thank you for your words Victor! You made my day!
And I know it is not easy to overcome early baldness. It’s hard! I know! I’ve been there Victor. But it seems like you have a perfect attitude toward it.
Victor, regarding the people in your life that you worry about when they see your shaved bald head, I understand.
But if they really love you, they’ll understand. And those that don’t, you should not even care about Victor. Again, I know it’s not that easy Victor.
I am now most likely little older than you Victor, but I was there where you are now. And believe me it gets better! Don’t give up Victor! Fight like hell, make your dreams come true, live a life like a true bald rockstar – successful attractive life of a bald man!
Thank you Victor and keep stopping by!
Thanks for your words. In this way , this website will be a world reference to overcome the lack of self confidence(that is the real problem) for sure. To be honest, even when I had heaps of hair I didnt have confidence, and everything happened because I am good looking. I still good looking but this “problem” wake me up to work in improve my self confidence. I consider too much the opinion of other people and I have to stop it.
I really like that attitude Victor! Stay positive, get and stay confident. Back it up with action and hard work. And you’ll certainly succeed!
Quite impressive work….and i like your english too
Thank you Todd! I appreciate the compliment! Milan
Thanks but I think your Website is useful just for straight and heterosexual men and boys. I am a young gay boy with somehow girlish interests and behaviour and got bald when I was a teenager. It really ruined my self confidence and resulted in self-hatred.
Bornch, thank you for your note and yes you’re right. And I suffer by it. It is mainly heterosexually oriented. I wish I could do it more to apeal to gay men too. And hopefully I’ll get a gay man writer involved who’s going bald and can write from the heart. Are you interested Bornch? Another thing I noticed, since I live in San Francisco Bay Area is that gay men tend to be much more comfortable going bald. They don’t suffer by it as much as straight men. It might be because they have naturally little bit more self confidence. I really thing that it is great for gay men to be comfortable with early baldness.
I am a straight man and just write it how I see it from my perspective. But you’re absolutely right Bornch, it should be for all man and all sexual orientations. I’m working on it and I plan that for the future.
Bornch, it seems like you are experiencing some confidence problems since going bald. I’ve been there. Self hatered can be part of it of course. I experienced that for some time too. Now, I got through it and so will you Bornch. It’s in the mindset. I would suggest to you to start being little bit more selfish. Concentrate on yourself. Find the way to like yourself more. Do what fulfills you. Have some serious fun in life!
Bornch, good luck in your journey. And I believe you’ll soon be attractive successful young bald man! And I believe you already are! Just love yourself little more!
Stay in touch Bornch! Milan
Thanks for your understanding and your help and support. It would be so good if a gay writer writes here and shares his experiences and perhaps gives some advice. Yes I’m sufferring confidence problems at age 24 and these problems have grown with me since I was teenager. I realy don’t know how to love myself. But i’ m glad to see peopel like you , who have overcome such problems and try to help others. Thanks a lot and best wishes.
Bornsch, thank you for your note and compliment. You made my day! I am working on it. Hopefully one of my gay friends who can write can be a great addition to this blog. He is going bald too. It is just hard to get him do the writing part. I guess he has more interesting things to do right now.
Bornsch, low confidence can be an issue for man who’s going bald at your age. But confidence can be gained. I wrote the whole series on confidence. Please check it out Bornsch. But it looks like, you are on the right track. You want to improve and that means you will. Don’t give up and work hard Bornsch! You are on the right track to be Attractive, Successful, Confident Bald Man. Milan
I was able to accept my balding a while ago and your videos helped me Millan. I still find low days where I blame my balding and being 5’6 for issues in my life though. Mostly, I feel like I may never find love again. It’s weird some days it seems better than others. I won’t lie to other people reading this, it is pretty difficult to get over this at a young age. It really messes with your head and I have been on this rollercoaster of emotions struggling to come to terms with it. I have gotten ridiculous fit by being in the gym 6 days a week, working 12-14 hour days trying to get ahead in life but I still feel like I am less of a man. The only thing that keeps me going is the hope that one day will be better.
That one day that I can look back at this present moment and laugh at how ridiculous I am being. I mean we only have one chance in life to make something of ourselves guys. Men aren’t judged by how they appear but what they produce in this world. I try to see it as a blessing in disguise as it allows us to focus on other aspects of our lives that other men are ignoring.
Paul, thank you for your comment here. I absolutely understand what you’re talking about. It is very hard for young bald man to make peace with it. It’s harder, the younger man is.
Paul, I don’t know exactly your age, but you’re also talking about your hight 5’6″ being a problem. I assure you it is not a problem. Also you’re very fit that’s fantastic!
Paul I want you to check this guy out: Neil Strauss. I’ve been recently reading his fantastic book: The rules of the game. He is what I imagine you to be. He’s bald and he’s very short build. But of course he’s fit. Now this guys nick name is Pick up artist. He was able in the past to attract any woman he was interested in. So why not you Paul? I’m not saying you should be a pick up artist. Not at all. But you can certainly be attractive to beautiful women! Anyway, check that book out Paul, read it and let me know what you think. There are several things men, all men drop the ball at when trying to be attractive. That will open your imagination what’s possible for bald man! Give it a read Paul!
Now, Paul. Don’t feel like you’re missing out having to stay in perfect shape and working out. You’re not sacrificing anything. That’s the right way to live life. Hard work and fitness is part of it. Everything valuable in this life takes work. Lots of work! And the guys who think they have all the talkers and they don’t have to work hard will eventually hit the wall. That’s certain!
Paul, stay in touch! And good luck on your journey. Be attractive bald man forever! I know you will. Thank you again for your note Paul. Milan
Milan, that’s cool that you’ve been reading about “the game”. Hope you can talk about this in your videos!
I will Ryan. It’s a great resource for every young going bald man. Thank you!
At heart, women just want to be noticed, appreciated and communicated with by men. Most importantly, they want to have fun with men, and if you’re a fun, engaging dude who is just confident with being yourself, then you’ll have plenty of success with women. No matter if you’re short, bald or possess a nose that’s been broken 5 times. I was married for 16 years to a beautiful and sexy red head that got plenty of attention from other men, though she remained faithful because I took care of her needs. When we divorced due to our lives and views changing, she eventually met and married another bald guy. The woman I am with now is also beautiful, this time a brunette, who is incredibly fit, talented and loves me for who I am. We’ve been dating over a year now, and our life together keeps getting better and better. Having a belief in yourself is by far the sexiest trait a man can possess. This belief may not be easy to maintain when you’re young and balding. If so, then FAKE IT, while still being true to yourself, until you gradually come to believe that you are the best you can be. And women will notice you. I’ve dated over 50 women in my life and I started losing my hair at 18. The early years were difficult, but only because it took me a while to become comfortable with my ‘new look.’ Once I did, everything changed in my relations with potential, women partners.
– Selkirk
What a great insight Selkirk! Thank you for sharing it with young bald guys! Milan
This was important for me to read. Thank you. I started losing my hairline as far back as 14 but it did not become an issue until a little after college at age 21. By 23 I have aa VERY receeded hairline and what is there isn’t much to speak of. My schedule for my hair at this point is keeping it short (inch or two) and to just comb it forward. I’m getting very near the point of shaving it. I’ll start with clippers but eventually I’ll have to use a razor. I look forward to this change with Trepidatious optimism. My entire life I have had an abundance of confidence and this has played into my love life as well. Until this point I have had absolutely no trouble with women and have built quite a reputation among those who know me as being exceptionally permiscuous. I am nervous for the future admittedly and I know that not everyone will accept my new looks when the time comes (I’m guessing I have about 6 more months till it should be shaved). 6 months ago I lost a very long term relationship and it has affected me greatly. The stress from losing that has definitely increased my hair loss at an alarming rate. Only adding to my crushed personality and self esteem. Suicide was a very real possibility not long ago and i know for a fact my hair loss was a part of the reason. That being said. My ex boosted my confidence greatly, regardless of my hair loss, she made me feel incredibly attractive and desirable. When the relationship first ended I “knew” I was a good looking guy and has played out well for my now single love life. It was only after a few times looking in the mirror did my hairloss start affecting my love life leading me to believe it truly is all in head. Confidence is definitely a huge factor in finding affection from a woman but admittedly looks has to do with it as well but only to a certain point. Some people pull off the bald look well and I am very optimistic that I will be one of those people although I have never actually seen my head without hair. My confidence is still very low at this time in my life although that could be attributed to other factors as well. Unhappy living arrangement, job satisfaction etc. I have met a beautiful woman but I fear my insecurities may be causing what the two of us have for each other to fail and this scares me as I see a very good future ahead of me with her. Your words have boosted my confidence a bit however the real change for me needs to come within. I look to examples in real life for help as well. Older bald men who have given me hope, watching their lives and confidence gives me hope for my future as well as friends my age struggling with the same thing (some handle it well and others do not.) I actually forwarded this page to a friend who seems to be struggling very hard because of this and I hope it helps him too. For the kids reading this, the ones 18 and under, what you are going through is real and can be challenging at times, but in no way are you the only one and in no way does your “condition” (for lack of a better word), solely affect your standing with women. It may take a handful away from you admittedly, but there are women out there who will gravitate to you for the very reason some may not. My friend lost every shread of hair minus a few unsightly patches at age 13 (attributed to stress) and throughout his years in highschool it affected him greatly. He used to be thought of as the “cancer kid”. He is now 24 years old and has had just as prolific of a love life as I have and is currently in a long term relationship with a beautiful girl and we expect them to marry at any time. And if I’m to be totally honest… He is not a good looking dude. In any sense of the word. But he has confidence and it has brought him to where he is now. Although looks MAY bring more women to you, it will be your confidence and personality that keeps them there. If you are down about your hair, look to celebrities like Jason statham or vin deasel. Those guys went bald and they are freaking killing it! Jason’s career in acting was actually benefited by his baldness (ever see a movie with him in it with hair? He was a backup character at best and now he is mr. BA running around shooting everything that moves.) Your biggest critic in life is yourself. And being ashamed of something most men suffer from will only help continue the stereotype that bald is not beautiful. Help yourself and help your fellow bald brothers. Keep that confidence up and show yourself off, not just for yourself but for bald men; past, present, and future.
Gage! Thank you very much for taking time to write this very insightful comment! It really made my day! I love your story and your transformation from hating your baldness into accepting it and not letting it to beat you. Gage, many young going bald men will benefit in the future from reading your words! Good luck on your journey Gage and stay in touch! Milan
Hi Milan,
I am 19 and have recently noticed my hair is thinning. I always knew it was going to happen. My dad lost it at a similar time to me. When I was younger I thought it wouldn’t bother me, but now it’s actually happening, it consumes my thoughts. To be honest, I don’t think it would have affected me so much if I had lost my hair when I was older, it’s just hard when you’re so young. I’ve spent countless hours researching how to stop it, tried minoxidil which gave me headaches and I was quite tempted to take finasteride even with all its terrible side effects. It’s so easy to get brought down by hair loss at a young age because of social pressure. It’s so easy to give up and think nothing is ever going to get better.
However, amongst all the crap on the internet about how bad hair loss is, I found your website. Honestly, thank you for creating it. Your positive messages have really helped me start to come to terms with the everything. Your blog encouraged me to get my first buzzcut, which I previously would never have had the confidence to do because it was such a change from the long long locks I used to sprout. The response has been nothing but good. Although I wouldn’t say I’ve accepted balding yet, I think I’ve begun to think more optimistically about it. Your website has given me a bit of perspective; hair loss isn’t the end of the world, though it’s not ideal, there are far worse things in life.
There’s a great song by C2C called ‘Happy’ that I really think sums up your outlook; you have to try to be happy, otherwise nothing is going happen. I really admire your message that you can’t automatically expect things to get better, you have to work at them with a determined and positive attitude. Hopefully I will be able to do that and soon regain my confidence.
Thank you once again!
Russel!!!
What a very pleasant surprise to find your comment. Thank your for taking the time and writing it. You really made my day! Thank you for feedback too. Yes my primary reason creating this website is to be 100% positive about baldness. There is no reason not to be. And it seams like you’re finding it Russel. That makes me very happy! You Russel, with your way of thinking are truly already on the right track to be attractive, successful bald man. And I know you already are. Work hard, stay positive, have fun, be bold, never hold back on your dreams Russel! Stay in touch! Milan
Hello,
First of all i have to say i really like your attitude. Very sincere. Not “If you buy my X product, you will be attracted”. Good.
BUT, i think this is all “male rationalization”. I am 23. 23 man, and i am bald as fuck. I am a ghost around women. I went from playboy to masturbator guy.
I can’t take this shit anymore. I lost my hope, totally. Other than escorts or gold digger sluts, i have no chance. This is why i am trying to build my business.
TO ALL BALD GUYS : Accept and give up. Try to find other things such as money.
Have a nice day from Turkey.
Efe, first thank you for your take on baldness here. I absolutely understand your pain. I’ve been there.
However I really have to disagree with you that you won’t have any attractive quality women beside hookers in your life. That’s just not true. If I have and always had beautiful women in my life, so can you. Work on that mindset Efe little more. I think you’re on the right track Efe. You just don’t believe it yet. That’s understandable. I believe that you’re turning into attractive successful bald man! Stay in touch Efe and good luck with your bussiness! Milan
Milan, I’ve read most of your articles and posts and I want to congratulate you for all you have done and how you have been able to become a successful and attractive bald man. But seriously, even after all that reading I’m still super depressed because I’m going bald way too fast at only age 17, probably when I’m 19 I’ll have nothing left. And what makes me feel so bad about it it’s that NO ONE except from me in my family is bald (on both sides), and they never believe me when I tell them I need help or at least to give me some encouragement… because I really need it. I’m so young and I’m about to lose my hair, I’m short, have terrible social skills, low t, and I don’t know if all this is due to my depression because I’m losing my hair, I really don’t know. Is there really a life ahead of me? Even if I go bald this young? It would make my day if you replied. Thank you.
Kevin, thank you for your question! You’re in a situation I’ve been once not that long ago too. So I’ll try to point out what I did. And I believe if you follow that, you’ll rock as a bald man eventually later. Now I’m not saying it’s easy. It’s not Kevin! You’re in a difficult situation.
17 and going bald is tough. And lots of people including your family don’t realize that. You’re getting no support from them. But from my experience it’s because:
The reason your family doesn’t give you support is because, they think you’re ok with it. They’ve seen bald guys before. No big deal. That’s what majority of people think. Including our family members. Plus Kevin, you have to realize, they don’t know how it feels going bald young like you. So they don’t understand the pain. And also, they are busy with their own problems. My suggestion here to you Kevin is to open up to the closest family member to you. In my case it was my mother. In your case it could be your brother or sister. It doesn’t matter. Just tell them how it hurts and how unfair it seems to you going bald this early. Than hopefully your closest person will pay more attention and give you some more support. If there is nobody to support you, I’m happy to do it.
Kevin you mention that your social skills are not good. You’re 17. That’s quite normal. Even those who appear to have great social skills at 17 are just walking on thin ice faking it, hoping they won’t get embarrassed somehow. 17 is a tough age Kevin. Guys and girls rely too much on others and how they accept them. It’s kind if a bullshit situation that eventually goes away. Hang in there Kevin! It gets better every year after 17. Roll with the punches but keep positive spirit. I know it’s hard.
Being short doesn’t matter to overall attractiveness of a young man. What really matters is confidence, fitness, style, fearlessness and boldness, which is really fearlessness. And all these can be developed. Dig deeper into my site Kevin. I talk a lot about these attraction building mans traits.
Will you have life after you get bald this young Kevin? If you don’t give up and concentrate on yourself – your goals, the things that make you happy and fulfill you Kevin and you work hard toward your general improvement at every aspect and you persist, you’ll not only have a life after going bald too young, you’ll have a great, attractive, successful, exceptional life many men only dream about. Now go and make it happen Kevin! Again it won’t be easy, but you can do it.
Every young bald man can!
Thank you again for your question Kevin! Milan
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement Milan! I’m sorry to say that my family doesn’t care about this (they think I’m just looking for excessive attention or something like that) and they even tell me I’m going crazy, but they don’t know the pain and depression Im going through right now, I wish they believed me and at least supported me:(.
You with your comment have given me WAY more support than any of my family members who instead tell me to stop thinking about stuff that “isnt happening” (going bald)… I just want some support from them because its tough being an awkward balding teenager.
Again, thank you so much for your reply, and if I could ask you something else; where should I start? Im already working out and have a decent body for my age, but due to my apparent low t levels (Ill have them checked next month) its really hard for me to get strong and fit, but Im giving it my all already.
Again, thank you for your support and comprehension!:)
Kevin, I understand your pain from lack of support from your family. But don’t let that make you to give up. You have to fight like hell. I know it’s very hard at 17. I was a mess at 17. It’s a difficult period to go through. I have a 4 year old son and it already scares me to even think about the period when he turns 17. Every 17 year old has it tough. But those like you and and me years ago have it even tougher. You have to overcome some huge mental obstacles Kevin. But, you can do it! Don’t let anything brake you Kevin!
If you don’t give up and you won’t let yourself down and I know you won’t, you’ll even get a great benefit for life out of this situation. You’ll become Antifragile. Check my video about how young bald men can become Antifragile out of their early baldness situation. And being Antifragile is a great trait for life. I am Antifragile and you’ll be too Kevin! Just don’t give up.
Low T might be a health problem for you Kevin. But don’t let that stop you either. I’d recommend for you to do Pull ups, push ups mainly as a upper body exercises. And than concentrate on leg workouts too – leg presses, hamstring curls, squats with weight. These exercises employ largest muscles in your body and promote natural testosterone release. Pair it with healthy diet free of sugar And flour and you’ll give your natural testosterone production good boost. Also sleep is important, rest. Don’t drink too much alcohol too. Basically try to live healthy lifestyle.
Than also work on your confidence Kevin. It won’t come over night. It’s a process. But confidence pretty much makes all problems disappear for other people looking at you. They’ll just see attractive confident man. That’s it. And it’s great for you too. Work on it!
Don’t give up Kevin! Fight like hell. You’re on your way to be a attractive winner! Milan
That was very encouraging my friend! Thank you once more for your words and support, I’ll do as you say: I’ll fight like hell to become the man I want to be. Once I’m out of high school I’ll shave my head (they don’t allow us in my school) and show the world that I’m not scared to go bald.
I’ll check the articles that you mentioned and follow your advice. Thank you for everything Milan!
Great Kevin! Stay in touch. You know where to find me. I want to hear about all your successes!
Hi Milan,
I’m a big fan of your work, watch all your videos. I try to practice the principles you teach. I’m working at feeling confident as a young bald man. Despite this I still feel it is an uphill struggle to feel and be perceived as attractive to the opposite sex. I’m considering getting a hair system fitted. This seems like I’m giving up on the quest to being a bald attractive man but maybe a hair system could work for me. What are your thoughts on hair systems? There is a company in the UK called that does them http://www.totalcoverplus.co.uk/
Ryan, first of all thank you for being a fan. And also for great question. I have nothing against hair systems. I think young bald man that really wants to try them should. So Ryan, give it a try. And see how it works and if you like the experience. But once you decide to stop wearing them, you know, that you can certainly be an attractive man being bald.
There is always a process for young going bald or already bald man to realize that by being bald, attractive successful life doesn’t end. It can be a great beginning. But Ryan, it takes all of us some time. We are all special individuals that need space and time to find out on our own. So Ryan, go and experiment with some hair products. And don’t worry! Let bald attraction be your insurance when nothing works for you. Because you can be a bald attractive rockstar anytime in the future.
Thank you Ryan for your question! Stay in touch. I want to hear how you’re doing in the future. Milan
already changed my mind. back on the journey towards becoming an attractive bald man
Fantastic Ryan! You’re young. Give yourself plenty of time. But never give up!
Thanks for you’re response Milan
Dear Milan
I came across your blog site today and I already love it!
Thank you for all your excellent guidance. You have a very inspirational and welcoming philosophy on life for men facing male-pattern hair loss. Losing hair at a young age can be a very traumatic experience for some men to deal with. Your writing is incredibly powerful and helpful.
I am 43-years old and gay. I noticed my hair beginning to thin when I was in my late 20’s. It was a slow process, but the signs were there and other people were beginning to notice. Children tend to be less diplomatic when it comes to communication and my young niece blurted out one day that she could see my bald scalp! I encountered a whole mix of reactions when my hair loss became noticeable. Some people were quick to recommend all sorts of homemade remedies and hair products to slow or even prevent hair loss, but I found that this only exacerbated my frustration. These recommendations did not work and I would strongly discourage anybody who is considering going down this route to avoid it like the plague, because it is a waste of time, energy and money.
In my opinion, if one is determined to have a crowning glory of hair forever, then seek professional help from reputable Hair Replacement Clinics. However, be warned, even the best of the best are not foolproof! Some of these companies are brilliant at advertising and promoting a very positive image of their work. I would exercise caution here, because what works for some, may not always work for others.
If you’ve come to a realization that you’re going to embrace male-pattern hair loss, then this is the ideal site for you. Sooner or later in life, we come to the understanding that we cannot please everybody. Some people will find that they’re attracted to us and others may be repelled. There are some men who will never go bald, but who go throughout their entire lives having a thick mop of hair. However, it doesn’t necessarily follow that they will automatically be more attractive to most people for having beautiful hair. The same applies to men who are losing their hair. Attraction to others is not as simple and straight forward as some may believe. Having a plenteous supply of hair like that of Matt Bomer or Denzel Washington, might never do the trick for you. Whereas having as little hair as that of Dwayne Johnson or Corey Stoll, might make some people want to rip your clothes off out of an inability to control their sexual desires for you! We all have different tastes and I would suggest that if some people do not like your baldness, then that is them and let them do what is best for them.
I know of many men who have major hair loss on their scalps and they’re still sexy and handsome, probably more attractive without the hair. Do not buy into the myth that balding men become less attractive, this is simply not true at all. If you’re finding yourself confronted by many negative opinions from various people connected to you in your life regarding your male-pattern hair loss, then it is time for you to adopt Milan’s philosophy. You cannot force these people to like your look, but you can change the way you look at yourself.
I managed to find a skilled barber, an Egyptian chap, who cuts my hair very well and I’ve also grown a full-beard which I keep neatly trimmed. I often get compliments on how attractive I look and my self-esteem has improved in this regard. Whether this is do to the aesthetic, personality traits or a mixture of positive attributes, I can’t really be sure. I’m happily married to a man who is also balding and my sister is married to a man who started to lose his hair in his early 20’s. Her husband is 48-years old now and my husband is 58-years old. One eventually grows used to having less and less hair on one’s scalp. I won’t lie to you, I do miss my thick mop of hair that I used to have as a teenager and in my early 20’s. Our society places such a high value on youth and beauty. It would be so much easier if our society placed values on how well we treat others instead of aesthetic and superficial things.
Thank you, Milan. This is a well-written and very good blog.
All the best,
Greg
By the way, you are very gorgeous and sexy, Milan! I love your unassuming manner that comes across in the video clips. Well done on this project of yours.
All the best,
Greg
Thank you Greg. I really appreciate your compliment! Keep rocking the attractive men world! You obviously belong to that category – Attractive Bald Men. Thank you again Greg! Milan
Wow Greg. I really appreciate you taking time to write here and help other men deal with their baldness. I can only add to it: Amen to your words Greg! Thank you!
It’s my pleasure, Milan. A BIG thank you to you! I love what you are doing here, it’s great!
I noticed I was thinning up top about a year ago and it upset me more than I would like to remember. I’m 19 and I know that before I turned 18 I had a mane like a lion–I had the kind of hair that women envied! And it’s now getting thin and sad-looking.
Since discovering this site, however, I am working harder to improve myself and focusing more on what I am passionate about. I won a chess tournament last week and in my free time I’m starting to compose my own music. I am also taking better care of myself now and it is all very rewarding.
Thanks Milan!
That’s great Nic! I know it’s tough what you’re going through. But you have the right attitude Nic. Yes, take care of yourself, concentrate on your well being, stay fit, have fun. One day I’ll play a Mach of chess with you. I was in a team a while ago too. Congratulations to your win Nic! And keep rocking! Milan
I am almost 50 and I have the same hair I had at 16. Thank God. Being old in the U.S. is horrific enough. You start to become invisible and irrelevant at middle age. Old people are looked down upon and generally hidden away in this country. Youth is the only thing that counts. As I tip over on the slide towards death, I know I would never be able to handle being bald. That would probably tip the scales towards blowing my brains out. I have to try to stay as young looking as possible (and people still think I’m in my 30’s) because I want to count as a man for as long as possible.
Thank God also that I’ve been married for years. Hit 50 single and you’re dying alone.
John, that is too much pessimism man? You need to lighten up a little. Don’t give others power over how trully young and attractive you really are as a man. You really are what you think you are, not what others think you are. Plus actually toward later years bald guys tend to look younger than guys with hair. Anyway John I appreciate your take on being bald for man and how you see it. But I have to respectfully disagree with your opinion. Milan
Hello Milan, thanks for this website, i’m still learning english, but i’ll do my best.
I have already read a lot of your articles and watched some of your videos. First i want to tell you this: i’m sorry if this make you feel uncomfortable, but when i looked at you for the first time, i didn’t think you were attractive, but when i listened you and i readed all those things you have written i started to think that you were actually handsome, i’m sorry if you don’t like gay people, but i tell you this in the most respectful way i can, ’cause you inspired me, and i’m a bit grateful.
Now this is my story: i’m 19 and i started to losing my hair at 13 (i’m not kidding), but i wasn’t losing my hair so fast, it has been a slow process, i don’t have problems in the front, but all my top hair has been getting thinner and thinner, i looked like a normal guy until the first half of this year, and i cut my hair really short, like 3 mm on november of 2014, i can tell you this, i’ve never experienced be so attractive, i think i always have been a handsome boy, i have a pretty face i guess, and i hated how i looked, but at the same time there were a lot of guys asking me for a date, or telling me that they thought i was very handsome, some of them even found my facebook profile, or just talked to me on the college. I was doing workout, bought some new clothes, and i started dating a really handsome boy, and i just asked myself, ¿why is this super handsome boy dating me? he can date anyone on this college!. Things became great, just because i was doing workout, new clothes and new hairstyle.
but you should know something important my balding problem wasn’t that obvious at that time. In fact when i told somebody about my balding problem, they always acted like they were surprised.
But then everything changed in March, i don’t know the reason, but i started to losing my hair extremely fast, and then i became into a guy with a very obvious balding problem, the guy i was dating, stopped talking to me, and i think that was the reason. I was depressed, stopped doing workout, and i started to feeling so ugly, so terrible. I always feel ugly since then, all my confidence has gone, some guys have asked me for a date, but i always say no, because i’m scared, i’m afraid about dating a guy, and then he let me alone again because i became a totally bald guy.
I know, it is very different for a gay man, because men are so superficial, if you are not handsome, then you are not worthy for them, you are just another friend. And i feel like i have a double curse hahahaha, being bald too young and being gay too is definitly a terrible mix.
I have read a lot of your articles, and i really believe, that this works for those guys who want attract some girls, but i feel so insecure about me. However i am grateful with you and your website, you give me some hope, not for attract guys but inspired me to do some things to be happy, i will do my best at college, my english will be flawless, and i’ll learn chinese and french too, i love dance, i’m going to dance again, i’m going to do workout again, and i’m going to buy some new clothes again, i will save money, and i will travel. Being happy is more importante than being handsome or have a beautiful hair!
Thank you so much, i suscribed to your page, you are the best! good luck Milan.
Camilo, first of all thank you very much for sharing your experience as a young bald way too early man. Where are you from Camilo? My gues would be Chile?
I really appreciate your honesty. I love it! You know I don’t think I’m a good looking man either. And that’s perfect, because you’d be surprised Camilo how many young men tell me that, they can’t be attractive bald because they are just not good looking. And that is not truth. Every man, however ugly he might look, can be very attractive just by his actions, attitude and confidence.
Camilo as you most likely know, I live in San Francisco Bay Area. I moved here 13 years ago. And I have more gay friends than straight friends. My close gay friends couple just had triplets! Congratulations Peter and Giovanni! You guys will be great parents!
You say being gay is a curse Camilo and on top of it you say you have another one – being bald and young. I don’t think so. We are what nature made us to be. And we should be 100% what we are. If my son and daughter are gay, so be it. As long as they are happy. That’s all that matters to me. And going bald very young probably is a curse in the beginning. But it should not be curse for life. It’s a curse that should aventually be looked by a young man and hopefully soon enough as a blessing. I certainly look at it that way. A lot of mental and positive attitude goes to that mindset change, but it’s attainable by every man. And every young bald man should strive for it! It seems like you’re doing great job at it Camilo! Keep it up!
Camilo, stay confident and as you already do, work on yourself, stay positive, keep dancing and never quit, stay in great shape, learn, do things that bring you joy. Don’t worry much about your surroundings. I know its hard when you’re 19 and you lose relationship. But from my perspective being 19 although a great age physically and mentally can be and usually always is very difficult for young man. Especially young bald man! I had my heart broken way too many times too at around the age of 19. It’s hard to be young. But now I wish I was 19 again too 🙂 Camilo things get better when you get little older, so don’t give up! Enjoy your life to the fullest, work hard on yourself. And never ever Camilo let your bald head live less than up to your 100% true potential. Never let it hold you back! I know you won’t!
Good luck on your journey Camilo. Stay in touch! Milan
I’m so grateful for your reply, trust me, this is the first time i feel that someone understand how i feel about my balding.
Actually i’m from Colombia, i know this may sound strange but life here is pretty normal and teenagers and young men here, have the same issues and troubles that in most of countries, even if some people may think that we all are folks making coffee or cocaine hahahahaha.
Trust me, as a gay man, i think you’re very attractive because the way you speak and your attitude are very positive and confident, that makes me enjoy when i’m listening you.
I’ll try to follow all of your advice, because i really want to be happy, and i really hope you’re right, and things will get better by getting little older and working hard.
I know love it’s hard and complicated at this age, but what really makes me feel so afraid, is to date someone now, fall in love with him, and then he run away because his boyfriend has become in a bald guy hahahaha so i’ll try to get more confident before date somebody else.
Thanks for all, you are th the best Milan! and thanks for your suppor for gay people hahahaha
That’s great Camilo! And I have nothing against Columbia. My sister in law is from Cali. She’s the nicest girl in the world! Go rock the world as an attractive bald man!
Hi Milan,
I’m thinking of getting into blogging and naturally I would be talking a lot about being a young bald man. Maybe we can collaborate together!
Sure Ryan! You should do it! Make it great and amazing! And persist! And you’ll succeed. Good luck Ryan!
I have a large bald patch at the back which I cant see. I just admire how I look with whatever hair I have and I feel that the natural me makes me an attractive proposition. My wife has been telling me to fill up that bald patch with a hair transplant but I find myself going against that idea… as if its not really relevant to do that.
Sunil, yes you are attractive naturally as you are. No transplants are necessary. Your wife will love you as a bald man too. Even more! Thank you Sunil for sharing your experience.
Hi guys please help me ……
Im 17 and i’m going to lose my hair i am from iran and i think i can’t keep on my life i feel a sence that i dont want to see anyone i scare of people waching me bald because i think i’m not going to look good
I’M LOSING MY LIFE
Iman, you’re 17! That is a tough age. I understand. It’s very hard to go bald at this age.
But Iman, believe me, things will get better from now on. 17 is in my opinion the hardest age for any young person. Especially young man who’s going bald way too early.
Iman, my advice to you will be: no you’re not losing your life! Your life is just starting. So make sure you fight like hell and make it a great one! Your early baldness however hard it seems now, should not be an obstacle to that. You can live fantastic attractive successful life as a bald man. I do! So why not you?
You have to get through these dificult years Iman. Concentrate on yourself! Make sure you do stuff that makes you feel better. Be little more selfish and don’t pay too much attention what others think and say.
Get very physically fit. Engage in your hobbies, start business, learn stuff. That will keep your mind busy. And slowly over time you’ll be gaining confidence in yourself.
Iman, never give up! Try to stay positive! Fight like hell! Never, ever give up. You’re hitting the bottom no and you’re going only higher from now on!
Good luck on your journey Iman. Stay in touch. And go rock the world as an attractive bald man!
Thanck you so much my freind
You are really powerful in speaking i listen to your advise and do my best
I wish good luck for you too.
Thank you and your great website.
Thank you Iman. Stay in touch. I’m convinced you’ll find the peace, success and you’ll live attractive successful life!
Good Afternoon,
First of all, thank you for your site. It’s important that others understand that this isn’t a “one person” type of concern. Those of us in the bald club must understand that this is a concern to a lot of men and women. I find your site to be very encouraging and upliting. Bald is beautiful!
Thank you Milan!
Thank you for your note here Douglas! True words!
I agree with Douglas. We can be sexy and attractive! Thanks Milan and happy 2016!
Thank you Greg!
Hey Milan, great website you’ve got here!
I’m 18 years old and my hairline has already receded quite a lot. I also have a bald spot at the back of my head. Naturally I am 6 foot 2 and very muscular. But I feel sooo insecure with this bald spot at the back of my head. I’m not sure whether or not to shave it all off because right now I can make it so that you can’t see my receded hairline but the bald spot at the back os noticeable. What are your thoughts on scalp micropigmentation Milan, because I am very interested in it. Keep up the great work!
Alex, thank you for sharing your story here. I absolutely understand your situation Alex. Loosing hair at your age is tough! I’ve been there.
Now you’re not completely bald Alex and maybe you’ll never become bald man. But if you do, just know that you have options. And my favorite one as you already know is to go the natural way and live a life of an attractive, successful bald man. It takes some time to make your mindset set 100% on this tune, but you will be fine Alex. And don’t just be fine with it. Rock with it! Become the most attractive man overall out there!
Now you’re asking about micro pigmentation and my opinion on it. Interestingly I was recently contacted by a CEO of one of this micro pigmentation service companies to advertise on my site. I declined. Not because I don’t like the product, but because my message for bald man is to just go natural without using any products.
That however Alex doesn’t make me dislike the product. I think it’s a very clever idea. And if you are comfortable and want to try it, go for it! Nothing wrong with that. It’s ultimately up to you Alex. But whatever you choose to do, know that just cutting it short and living life of an attractive bald man would do the trick all the time.
Good luck on your journey Alex! I wish you the best! Stay in touch!
I am a female who has been surrounded by handsome bald men all my life. My dad is bald, my brother started going bald at 17, and my husband started losing his hair in his late 20s. For my brother, losing his hair at such a young age was very traumatic. He like so many others ended up accepting it and is so much happier at 35. As a sister, I hated how it upset him so. Now my husband and I have a son who most likely will lose his hair at some point. I worry about him getting picked on or having a hard time with it especially if he is young like my brother was. My question is how do I support him in this process if this happens? I honestly worry about this, and he is not even two! As a parent, you just don’t want your child to struggle even though it’s part of life. What do you wish your parents would have said or done?
Thank you for your question mom of maybe a young bald man eventually. First of all, your son might never go bald. I have two brothers and they are not bald.
You are obviously a great mom. You already worry about your son going bald and he is only 2. He’s a lucky boy indeed.
So what can parents do?
As mom, love him. And tell him often you love him. I know you will. I was very close to my mom when I was a young boy. I had a lot of support from her. Even though she was very busy and often wasn’t around. But I knew she would do anything for me. She was the greatest mother I could have. Be the greatest mother your son can have. I know you will.
If he ever goes bald, he will most likely be a young man by than. And than in my opinion there is not that much you can do for your son anymore. He will be a man standing on his own feet. Just be there for him and support him and love him. Make sure when you see bald men it’s not a big deal. Maybe his grandpa and uncle can show him a right attitude toward baldness. When a bald man makes fun of himself and his own baldness, he is showing high confidence. That can be a fantastic example for your son.
It will be him who’ll become a proud confident bald man eventually. It might take little time for him. Maybe it will be little painful, but he will get through it. Little adversity or a lot can be a huge advantage for young going bald man. He will eventually become Antifragile as a result of it. And that’s an incredible skill for life. You as his mom will always be there to support him.
I am sure, if your son ever goes bald at a very young age concerned mom, he’ll not only live a good life. He will thrive! So don’t worry too much mom!
Thank you very much for this question!
Milan
Thnx a lot mate
You’re welcome Zero!
Can u confirm it is due to genes . I might be sufering from stress and have scaly scalp even though my temples have been recced
Zero, it most likely is genes. Was your grandpa from your mother side bald. That’s where the genes to our baldness come from.
But don’t worry Zero, you can and should still rock the world and live attractive succesfull life as a bald man.
And if you attack it and apply everything that’s written in this web site, you’ll be more attractive and succesful man than perfect men with hair every time. Go make it happen Zero!
Thnx a lot pal . Even though some hairs have come back . Yes my grandpa was bald . Infact my father is bald and my mom sufers from female baldness. Your words have doubly charged me and has filled my veins with fire. Looking forward to work with you 2 make the earth a better place. Lol
yep . Even though some hairs have come back . Yes my grandpa was bald . Infact my father is bald and my mom sufers from female baldness. Your words have doubly charged me and has filled my veins with fire. Looking forward to work with you 2 make the earth a better place. Lol
Those are the words of real winner Zero! Keep that atitude, work hard on yourself and you’ll win every time! Good luck on your journey. Stay in touch!
Hey bro just went to a doc to confirm the baldness. She said that it is due to fungi and gave me an anti fungal shampoo. Do you think this is possible. Any thoughts will be highly appreciated.
It’s certainly possible Zero. It’s a doctor, so listen to him. Try what he recommends for a while and see what happens. If it improves you hair loss, great!
Make this website to be your insurance when nothing else works. I know I sound like a broken gramofon and I repeat myself a lot, but I’ll say it again and again:
You can life a very attractive successful bold life up to your true potential and beyond as a bald man!
Remember that Zero. Now go and do what your doctor said. Good luck!
Man I was so good looking when I had hair smh. I’m sad now. IM ONLY 21
Do you think I should just wait until I’m older to get a girl since they are shallow at this age? There’s this girl I liked and I stopped talking to her because I started going bald. I don’t feel like she could get anyone else so hopefully she will come back to me. Also do you recommend that I bring up my baldness with girls or should I just ignore it and be myself? Thank you.
Chris, my answer would be this: be yourself, be confident who you are, have fun on your terms. And this one is important: Don’t give anybody, girls included, power to make you happy, confident and strong. You and only you are responsible for that to happen.
I know it’s hard at your age to pull off. But you have to keep trying. My stratege was this: I was flirting with girls at my early stage of baldness. But I was bulletproof. I didn’t give them a chance to hurt me. Even if that means not carrying much about them at all. Off course you don’t want to be an asshole.
Do the same Chris! And the girls will eventually come. The are attracted by confident men that stand on their own feet. No matter their look.
You’ll be fine Chris! Go be a little selfish and concentrate on yourself. Don’t make girls your priority.
If this one seems to be great. Give her a chance. Show her your feelings. See what happens. But don’t take it too seriously when she rejects you. Move on with a smile. You can pretty much identify successful people in this world by that attitude. Now be one of them too Chris! Milan
Thanks I appreciate. But be 100% honest with me Milan. Now that I’m bald, is it not possible for me to become an attractive guy that can have an attractive girl? Be honest.
Chris, very honestly! Absolutely! Sky is the limit. If I was able to do it, so will you be able to do it. I am married now to one of those beauties, so I don’t care anymore. But you are not. So go get them! Be confident and don’t let anything hold you Chris!
Great videos, Great website, Great message. For me, currently at age 30-something and for what I know now with all the trouble and corrective surgeries and injections and worry and concealers and hiding – If I had a time machine and could go back to when I was 18 when I had my first FUT hair transplant I would tell myself STOP – Don’t do this – You will regret it when you are my age and you just want to move on with your life and are being held back by the fact you can’t beat your hair loss and now don’t even care about hair loss but you are most ashamed by the fact you tried to fight it other than to just be the bald guy you were meant to be and suck it up and work towards building confidence from within knowing that it is that which is what really matters most in finding yourself, your career, your life, and your partner. To this day, I still have yet to be brave enough to shave my head and expose my scar. Huge Kudos to all of you men out there who shave your head and embrace your baldness and move on with each and every single day of your life as I am currently struggling to move on with my own which is a much worse feeling to live with now than if I would’ve embraced myself and my hair loss from the beginning. Keep up the great work on this site in promoting baldness as I am always impressed by men I meet out in the world who embraced their baldness and wish I was also one of them embracing it along with them but unfortunately I was too weak and that’s only for myself to regret upon until the day I can truly accept myself for how I am and that day still has yet to come because of the fear of shame I couldn’t imagine to bare so I will always have to hide and avoid situations which could be comprising in exposing my secret which will ultimately hold me back from being/living free.
Real guy, I am honored you shared your story here on my website. And thank you very much for dong it. Many bald men will benefit from your words and experience.
Now, Real Guy, you are a young man and there is never too late to change and move on. I hope from depth of my heart, that you’ll find the way to do it.
It is not easy to do. And I understand your problem. I maybe make it look easy, but it never is.
I believe your great days are commng. Do not ever give up. I believe you’re on a right path now. Let it progress naturally Real Guy. Don’t push it. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Give yourself lot of credit for trying Real Guy. That means that you really care.
Again, thank you for sharrying your story Real Guy. And stay in touch. Let me know if I can help.
Milan
What’s more attractive,a bald guy in shape or a fat hairy guy, it basically comes down to doing the best with what nature gave you. Confidence,sense of humour, fit body, I’m bald and I know women love the above traits more than hair.
True words Derek! Thank you!
Hey Milan,
First I really want to commend you on your awesome efforts with this website. It’s so refreshing not to have someone try to take advantage of our vulnerability and attempt to sell us something or make money out of our misery.
I started balding at 18, noticeably balding by 21 and now at 30 I’m almost bald on top. Unfortunately, I have a narrow, small head which doesn’t really look great shaved (even though I have tried shaving it a few times and I always got the same response – Oh my god you look so much better with hair!). I have the usual story that I had great hair growing up and it was generally the first thing people noticed about me. Losing it has been truly devastating to my self esteem and confidence. What’s more difficult is my Dad has more hair than me and he’s in his 60’s and my older brothers have absolutely no hair loss either – talk about drawing the short straw!
What’s worse, and this is really hurting me, I recently passed on the opportunity to be with THE girl of my dreams – all because I have such little confidence in myself that I was thinking she would not be attracted to me and she would be embarrassed to introduce me to her friends and family because I’m a bald guy and she is one of the prettiest girls I’ve ever seen. How crazy is that? But unfortunately I cannot help how I feel – my self worth is shattered and I feel so shallow and horrible. I know I’m a man and I should act like a man, but I just can’t seem to bring myself to do that.
This amazing girl asked me to move to her city in the USA (I live in Europe) so I asked my work if I could transfer to our US office which is in the same city – to my surprise they said yes but then my insecurities kicked in and all I could think about is how can I go there as a bald man? How will people in that girls life take me? Will they be laughing at this girl for agreeing to be with a bald man? At least here in Europe I’m in somewhat of a comfort zone. I told the girl my work refused my request.
Now I’m so depressed that I let this beautiful, wonderful woman get away from me all because of my insecurities! I wanted to discuss this with her on a couple of occasions but I couldn’t do it – I was afraid she would think I’m pathetic (which honestly speaking is exactly how I feel). So a little backstory for all this to make a little more sense, I met this beautiful angel at my friends wedding (I still had enough hair at that time) when she flew over to Europe and we got along really well and stayed in touch from there. She hasn’t really seen me bald because I was either hiding it from her with concealers when I visited her or only talking at a certain angle when video chatting.
I’m trying to accept my fate like a man and get on with my life. I’m attempting to get super fit like you advised, and I can try to act confident but it’s very very difficult. I look at everyone around me in my life (friends, family, work colleagues) and every single one of them my age has a decent head of hair at least. It would be easier to deal with if I looked acceptable with a shaven head but my head looks like a raisin on top of my body.
At this moment in time, I really don’t know what to do and I’m feeling very down. It’s crazy and ridiculous but I sometimes think crazy thoughts like I would prefer to just die or something stupid like that! Ridiculous I know but I’m trying to get over it in any way I possibly can. Saying that I would never attempt suicide for any reason let alone something so stupid like this!
Anyway, I apologize for the length of the post, I just really needed to vent and this seemed like a good place. I hope you can respond with some words of wisdom Milan.
Thank you once again for all your efforts – You’re a great guy.
Adam
Adam, I feel honored you shared your story here. Thank you for being so honest with your situation.
I can relate to you very well. I too have 2 brothers and father with perfect set of hair. It’s hard. But you can’t let it to brake you down.
First, never give up Adam! Never. Never.
I know it’s a hard to follow my advice here, but you have to keep trying and staying open to it. You have to believe it eventually clicks. My advice is:
You need to live your life boldly, attractively and successfully as a man who is bald! Is that possible Adam? Off course it is! Many before you eventually reached that point. And you’ll reach it too.
Give yourself plenty of time. Don’t be too hard on yourself! Be little selfish and concentrate on your own self improvement and well being Adam.
Regarding the beautiful girl in US Adam. Even if she rejects you, you have to go after her. That’s your calling. You know she already likes you and you like her too.
The pain will be much smaller if you get rejected by her tan pain of regret that you never tryed. Do it Adam!
Concentrate on confidence Adam. Confidence is the most attractive trait man can possess no matter how he looks. The way to cultivate it is through growth mindset Adam. You fail or get rejected, you get up and give yourself a pat on the back for trying. And you move on smarter and more confident. Repeat, repeat, repeat. Selebrate failures Adam.
Let’s stay in touch Adam. Good luck on your journey. Keep me posted how you’re doing. And remember – Never give up!
Milan – Thank you so much for your reply.
I can truly say you are an inspiration for us all. And you make some excellent points which make a lot of sense. I will try to remember them when I face some hard times like I am now.
I’ll try to keep in touch. In the meantime, please make sure you continue with your amazing work here on this website. I don’t think you know just how many men around the world you are helping with your efforts….and we are all very grateful to you.
Thank you once again for your reply – I cannot tell you how much I appreciate it.
Adam
Thank you very much for your kind words Adam. And now go be happy, live great attractive successful bold life as a bald man!
What do you think of scalp micropigmentation? Have you heard great stuff on it? Also would girls care that it’s not real hair? Thank you.
Micro pigmentation Chris? I’m not that sure what would I say. I’m a big fan of just going with what you were given. If you’re bald, be bald. But off course I have nothing against it either.
At what age do you think girls will start to accept and see bald men as attractive? Thank you
Chris, any age. Show your confidence, be very comfortable with who you are and they’ll be very attracted to you.
Hello,just a quick message,just watched a day time TV dating program,the girl goes on 3 dates, one of the guys happened to have a full head of hair,the other 2 happened to be bald, she was very attractive and guess what,she picked one of the bald guys to see again. But what got me,the other bald guy had the confidence thing nailed,when he wasn’t picked he smiled at the camera and said” I bet all the girls watching this are saying why didn’t she pick me” , confidence is the key, and as you say confidence comes from good physique, and attitude, life really is what you make it, cry in the corner and feel sorry for your self,are give it your best shot.
Exactly Derek! Winning atitude, willingness to take a hit and move on with a smile, bulletproof confidence win over full set of hair everytime!
Thank you for sharrying your observation here Derek! Milan
Life sucks right now man. Being bald feels like the end of the world. It use to be easy to pick up girls when I had hair. Now I don’t even have the confidence to even look at them. I don’t want to die alone or settle for a ugly wife with 3 kids. How sure are you that I can follow the steps to becoming an attractive bald man and ACTUALLY succeed? Also will I have to settle for unattractive women or can I get attractive women?
Chris, I’m sorry for your pain man! I’ve been there. Don’t give up!
This system works. The most beautiful women I dated in my life was after I became bald man at 23. One of them is my wife now.
It’s tough now Chris. Get over those bad feelings and on living confidently.
Good luck on your journey Chris!
Milan
You know what you’re right! Thank you for helping me get my confidence back! I was scared of being bald because I am only 21 and everyone else has hair but Bald men can be extremely attractive if your willing to put In the work! I was just afraid that beautiful women wouldn’t find me attractive anymore Which is not true. Sure they may not like me right now but after I work on myself, that will be the complete opposite. Look at kelly slater, Jason stahham, tyrese Gibson, Ricky whittle, or the rock!
That is a winning atitude Chris! And men who think like winners almost always are winners.
Keep rocking Chris!
Usually I know people like to make blogs like this just make people feel better but did any of this truly happen to you? Also will I be ok if I have a weird shaped head but a cute face? Thanks
Absolutely John! You can be attractive bald man with weird shape of your head. Not a problem at all. Its all in confidence, physical and mental fitness. Get on it John. Acquire those skills and sky is the limit of your own attractiveness and success!
No John I didn’t make anything up. It’s all truth! Without sounding like I am bragging, I trully live my life like a winner! And you’ll too John! Good luck!
Let’s be real here. The main reason why we are all here on this website is because we feel like we will no longer be attractive to women. I love hearing your success stories Milan but can I also succeed with women too? I just want to be attractive to women and feel accepted by others I’m around but it’s hard to convince myself. I even thought about suicide at one point which is dumb. I have a girlfriend right now but we’re both young. Her celebrity crushes are all guys with hair so I’m afraid that when I lose mine, she may not find me attractive anymore. What do I do? Thanks for your help
Great point Jason! And thank you for writing it.
I can write about this topic forever. But I’ll try to be brief. You know Jason, I have 4 year old son and he will be most likely asking me the same question as you do.
Young girls gravitate to celebrities with hair. Will I eventually lose my girlfriend because of my hair loss?
Will people respect me and find me attrctive?
My answer is this: Son and Jason. Some will and some won’t. The important thing is that you find a strength to respect yourself anyway. You find strength to move on. And to move on as an ultimate winner. Becase if your GF leaves you just because you lost your hair, she’s not the right one for you anyway.will you be facing situations like this in life? Off course you will. Everybody does, including those celebrities with hair.
Boys! Work on your confidence. Never give up. Like and respect yourself. And your environment will find you very attractive! Life hurts sometimes. The winners move on with positive outlook for the future.
Try to adopt this atitude Jason.
Milan I’ve been bald for about 25 years,half my life,I’m not tall,5,6 but I do believe in positive thinking.
I joined a internet website about a year ago and I wasn’t getting the cream of the crop to be blunt.
My profile was basically nice guy would like to meet nice girl.
I found another internet site offering advice on what a girl looks for, I took onboard the ten or so ideas, added them to my profile, I was honest in 90%, kind,caring ,sense of humour,confident,hard working,know my self worth,enjoys working out,self employed,own business enjoys the finer things in life, I’m not loaded but not poor,but I did add the words” quite successful”, I guess girls use old pics of themselves. The responses are beauty queens, my baldness or height have nothing to do with it. If the draws humour,nice personality,hard working I’m in,if it’s cash I’ll have to work a bit harder. God bless the gold-diggers’.
Thank you for sharrying your experience Derek! Pretty eye opening!
So basically if we’re young and bald, we have to wait until we are older to attract a decent girl? That sucks then.
No Jason. You should start doing it now.
I’m sorry but it’s just not possible to be an attractive bald guy, not at this age. No matter how much I try to convince myself, it just isn’t possible. I hear people laugh and say eww he’s bald all the time and it hurts my feelings. Women don’t even notice you and people don’t take you seriously. I may do scalp micropigmentation and see if that helps. Thanks for trying Milan, you did your best trying to help everyone out but they need to hear the truth. No more lies
Jason I absolutely understand your point. Give yourself some time. And when you’re ready come back! It is absolutely possible to be an attractive young bald man.
Hello Milan. Let me start by thanking you for this website! It gave me the long needed strength to finally shave me head bald. Reading all these comments here helped me a lot! That’s why I wanna briefly share my story as well.
I’m 25 years old and had started balding at the age of 20. It was on a trip with a friend when he asked “Is your father bald too?”. Up until this point I thought it was normal to lose hair after showering. It wasn’t that much, but still a lot more than normal. So that’s when I realized what was going on up there. In hindsight I did the worst possible thing: I tried ignoring it. At the age of 23 I got more and more comments on my thinning hair. Each and every one of them hurt a lot. Also, I did the combover for many years. 6 months ago I went to the barber and in the end he showed me the haircut with a mirror (as they always do) and I was shocked. I never noticed the bald spot on top of my of head. I knew I had to shave my head bald eventually. That day was today. It took me 6 months of talking myself into it and building up the courage.
Here’s why I did it: I was a prisoner of my own hair for more than 5 years. I always used hair spray to make sure my combover stays in place. I didn’t want people to see my receding hairline nor my thinning hair (of course they did anyway – but I ignored that). I stopped wearing sweaters (cause they would mess up my hair). I stopped going swimming (even though I live right next to a huge lake). I didn’t open the window in my car, I would try to avoid going outside in windy weather. I wouldn’t wear a helmet while biking. I could list more things for hours. Long story short: I missed out on A LOT of things and opportunities because I let my hair shackle myself.
I was always wary of my hair. When talking to people their glances would slide up to my hairline. I hated it so much. I’m really glad I shaved it off today. I’m SO excited getting back my life 😀
As to the attraction thing: I have never been a good-looking guy. I’m not THE ugliest guy in the world neither, but definitely far away from being considered hot. That’s why I never could rely on my appearance but always have had to impress by my character and confidence (my girlfriends in the past were all really attractive women – I’d say none of them dated me for my looks). So nothing has really changed all that much after going bald. I’ll still have to rely on my confidence, which now is even bigger than before. Before going bald I had always (ALWAYS!) the feeling I was lying to women. Feeling like I was hiding something from them because of the combover. I won’t be having that feeling anymore.
I have gotten only positive feedback thus far. All from people who would (and have done so in the past) tell me if it looked terrible. They actually like it. But even if they wouldn’t, so what? Of course there will be people disliking my looks. Again, so what? Same was true before my haircut. They will like me for my character just like they did before. The only difference is that I (!) am feeling better now. Like finally being freed of my prison I put myself in.
For all people trying to build up courage: please, do not let your looks control your life like they did in my case. Yes, it is a horrifying thought. For gods sake, it took me over 5 years! But you know what? I was smiling when shaving my head. Each and every stroke felt like I was breaking my prison walls.
I’m excited for my new life. Thank you again, Milan and all the other wonderful people on this website!
Thorrak, you made my day! What an amazing description of a young balding man YOU, the pain, prison and the rise to ultimate victory over yourself! I have no words to ad. What an amazing story! Keep rocking Thorrak! You are on a right track to be a winner in life in every situation you will find yourself. You’re a true young bald attractive confident successful man! Thank you for sharing your story! Milan
Hey Milan, got some news. For one, bald men are very attractive to women, sometimes they don’t admit it but that’s how they really feel. Also it doesn’t make since to go and hide and be sad at something you can’t control. But check this out. Whether you’re a bald man or a man with hair, it’s all about how you make a woman feel. You can be a very goodlooking guy with hair but if a girl does not feel some type of attraction for you, it will never work. Also you have to change your perception. We as guys are always so use to chasing women that when we step back, apply the attractive steps that Milan teaches, and be ourselves, women will be fighting over us! Of course it starts with confidence, and don’t fake it because women know, but after that, things get better
Chris what an amazing perspective! Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts. Big, big, big true are your words Chris!
I am harsh. I am from India and I am 17 years old right. will turn 18 in September. I have been loosing hair for maybe 2-3 years but it has become very noticable in the last 1 year. Earlier i used to have some of the thickest hair in my class and now i am almost sure my hair are the thinnest. Even when say the hair is like 2-3 cm long, you can see through it. The thinning is very visible. I cut the sides really short and left the top as it is. The balding isn’t very completely evident but when compared to the thick hair of everyone else in my class, it looks terrible. I am also not sure why i am loosing hair. There are so many possible reasons but its still not certain. In January this year the doctors said it was male pattern baldness and put me on minoxidil but after 5 months of use and the hair only getting much worse, i decided to stop using it and try natural treatments and just simple hair care. I am really hoping something works and i stop loosing more hair, maybe even regrow a few.
However, there is a very good chance nothing will work and it will keep thinning. I personally don’t think hair is everything and Bald people can look very attractive but i am just 17. I mean if this was at 30 or even 25, i wouldnt complain as much, but i feel 17 is too young to be loosing hair. I feel I look much better with my hair. It used to be my pride 3 years ago. I am sure people can look good even without hair but at 17, its just too young. No girl at 17 or 18 wants to be with a bald guy. I am off to college this August and till a few months ago i was so excited about college and life, but now i just feel sad about the future. I am nostalgic about the times i used to have all the hair. I just feel like extremely sad and i don’t know what to do anymore. Sometimes i wish i could turn back time and take care of my hair and pay more attention to it when i first noticed the problem instead of leaving it to such a later stage. I was really inspired by your blog and videos and maybe you can have a few words of wisdom for me. I just feel so bad otherwise
Harsh thank you for sharing your experience with early baldness. I know it’s very tough. You hit a big set back. But you have to look forward. Life goes on and you have to be a winner in it. You have to be a winner of your life. You’ll be fine! Don’t give up Harsh!
Channel your youthful energy into positive and productive activities Harsh. Become more selfish. Ignore what people think of you and concentrate on your own well being. Get in perfect physical shape and start seriously working on your own confidence. Thinks will be fine. I repeat don’t give up.
In worst case scenario Harsh you’ll end exactly like me 🙂 I have a beautiful, intelligent, smart supermodel looking like wife. I have two beautiful kids. I’m bald, but I have to constantly turn pretty women down. I’m sorry ladies, I am already taken! Not bad at all! I love my life. And you’ll too Harsh! Just promise me you won’t give up. And get to work. It’s time to be a winner in your life again Harsh. Go rock on! Never ever let your early baldness hold you back!
Good luck on your journey Harsh!
I’m going bald at age 20. I know women can find bald men attractive sometimes but at what age do they begin to like them? Also have you ever had more success with women than your friends with full heads of hair? Thank you
Carlos, absolutely! Women find bald men attractive. Young bald man in any age who has manners, is very physically fit, bold, independent thinker and very confident is an attraction magnet at any age even 15.
And yes Carlos, women always find me more attractive than my friends I’m out with who have lots of hair.
Carlos, get to work and become the most attractive man around. No more talking and learning. Take massive action Carlos!
Ahoj, Milan. That’s almost everything my father has taught me to say in slovakian. I hope you can help me out a bit here.
I’m 21 years old and am balding since I was around 19. As you can imagine, it’s been one hell of a struggle… This past week my depression has hit an all time low and not even my parents know what to do with me anymore. I’m not totally bald yet but I have a huge forehead (Ivan Rakitic type) and am afraid of shaving my head because I’m afraid my forehead will look even more gigantic and also because when I touch my skull I can feel a lot of irregular shapes in it.
However, I’m still willing to put up a fight against this depression and come out victorious. I was wondering if you could give me some words of advise.
Pozdravy,
Aloiz
Aloiz, of course you will be victorious! Don’t ever give up Aloiz. You can’t let early baldness hold you back. My advise to you would be to go easy on yourself. Don’t cut your hair until you feel comfortable with it. Give it some time Aloiz! Start taking yourself little less seriously. Start vigorous workout routine. Not only to look better, but also to feel better. Eat healthy sugar free diet. Set big goals for your life. And start working on them. Fill your time with fun productive activities. And don’t make girls your priority. They will come eventually. Don’t worry.
There is nothing wrong with Ivan Rakitic kind of forehead at all. He is actually pretty attractive man. When the time is right cut it short Alois. But no rush.
Aloiz, you’ll get through this. I know it. I did. And you’ll too. It’s a done deal. Work on your confidence Alois too! That’s the most attractive trait of a man out there!
Alois, I wish you good luck on your journey! Go rock the world and don’t let your early baldness hold you back ever! Stay in touch. Milan
First of all I wanna thank you Milan for sharing these priceless stuff with us 🙏. I’m from Iran and 28. I read plenty of comments and I’m not wearing your shoes but believe me you guys have a lot to be happy for. To be honest I don’t think being a bald man is such horrible thing by itself , though for me it is accompanied by poverty, unemployment, ugliness, depression, and etc. I’m educated and intelligent enough but going bald triggered me to seriously consider committing suicide. I have no idea how much longer I can hold up.
I just wanted to write to you and appreciate what you are doing as well as expressing my happiness for knowing that there, really, are people who are bald and happy with that. Good luck with you and our fallow bald mates.
Reza thank you for your note and I really apreciate the compliment about this website.
Reza, promise me you’ll never give up! Neve ever never never never never give up! You’re 28! Your whole life is ahead of you. Bald, poor? I know that’s tough. I’ve been there. I grew up in comunist Czechoslovakia. Left slovakia as 23 years old. I was already bald. I came to US and started working the hardest jobs. Moving furniture, digging holes, tree work and others.
I don’t regret any of it. Now I look at those times as the best years if my life.
There is always a way out of your situation Reza. Don’t give up! Make a plan and start working that plan. Don’t let your early baldness stop you! Never ever let that stop you!
Reza, let’s stay in touch and your job is to start living every day up to your true potencial. What are your dreams and goals? Go agressivly after them!
Good luck Reza. Let’s stay in touch. Milan
Hi Milan, i am from India where baldness is considered as weakness and people exploit it every day. I am 5.10″ inch weigh about 76kg I have not shaved my head it’s considered as bad for job and Girls call me Uncle by the way I am 29years old. My mom worries that I won’t get bride.
Please suggest me what to do?
thanks in advance
Purushotham, I feel your pain. Especially your description of the culture and the baldness of an young man. It’s hard. But I have advice for you.
I think the culture look at baldness is very similar all around the world. Something is missing so it must be bad.
But in my opinion it’s your call. Yes you can be miserable and the whole world will see you that way. Not a good strategy!
Or you can forget your missing hair move very confidently and happily forward. You can work on other parts of your life you can control. And if you work hard enough and you gain the confidence, self respect and self belief you’ll beca man in high demand! You’ll be very attractive to others. That’s exactly how they’ll see you. Exactly how you see yourself. And finding a bride should not be any problem. They’ll find you Purushotham, and you’ll be able to choose the best one for you.
So in short adopt confidence, boldness, attractiveness and self respect Purushotham! And if you do and I know you will, everyone else will notice the same: This is a confident, attractive, bold man. And he doesn’t give a F..K that he’s bald. And that’s amazingly attractive.
Good luck on your journey Purushotham. Stay in touch. Milan
Hey Guys, My name is Sebastin!
I read a whole bunch of your stories and I just wanted to share my experience with being a bald man myself. I started loosing my hair around the age of 25, I am 45. I was very insecure and I just didn’t want to take part in so many things because of that. I didn’t go to clubs and stuff because of the No Hat rule, that I’m pretty sure everyone is aware of. I was lucky enough to have met my wife before I started loosing my hair. She has ben nothing but supportive but that still didn’t change the feelings I had about myself.
I did research into websites such as this one, and I stumbled upon SMP treatment, Scalp Micro Pigmentation. And it literally changed my life. I went to a few different clinics, such as His Hair, Scalp Micro and SkalpUSA. I decided to go with SkalpUSA simply because i felt the most comfortable doing with the guy doing the treatment, Graig.
The treatment was broken down in three treatments. Im going to be honest, I was a little frustrated after the first treatment, but after the second treatment, i literally cried! It was so amazing! I looked like I had a fully shaved head. My attitude changed 100%!
I am a bald attractive man! and I will gladly tell you all about SMP from SkalpUSA! don’t hesitate to ask me! sebastinangelrodriguez@gmail.com
Thank you for sharrying your experience Sebastin! Seems like you’re doing fantastic! And yes you are an Attractive Bald Man Sebastin!
Hi! I am a woman and I know I have no business being here. I just happened to come across this website and could not help skimming through some of the stuff written here.
I’m sure this is a great inspirational site for balding men. Would just like to add something in case it helps. However, it is my personal opinion alone and should in no way be considered as a paradigm. As someone who is in her late twenties, I find young bald men who are athletic or exercise and try to keep themselves fit or have a good physique attractive. And of course, personality definitely counts! Even if a guy is good-looking and has a head full of hair but is insensitive, arrogant, or domineering, it makes a poor impression.
I just shared this because I thought one’s physique and personality are something that we can work on on our own unlike premature hairfall where, beyond a point, we are helpless.
Lots of love to all of you! 🙂
Ananya, how fantastic you shared your thoughts as a beautiful woman here. All the young going bald men will really apreaciated this kind of feedback from a beautiful intelligent woman like you Ananya! I know who you are! And thank you very much for your note. I only hope more women stop by and leave their thoughts about their opinion regarding bald men and attractractiveness or not they feel towards it.
Thank you Ananya once again! Milan.
Dear friends.
i went over most of the comments from so called Balding or Balded fraternity, lets understand one thing, loss of hair is not a choice but a fact to certain people who have genetic linkage, becoming bald is not a crime or it does’t make you unfit to the society. All that is needed is to accept yourself as you are, this may be a bitter truth but at the end truth prevails and nothing can change or reversible. Try to look smart within your limits and practice bald and beautiful culture. At the end of the day everything will be alright, dating a women is not the ultimate goal of life but to achieve something worthwhile should be your ultimate goal.
Not everyone hates baldness and not every hairy person is being loved please bear this in mind.
What you would have done if you were to be a blind,without a leg or both ? Considering many such factors you are better placed, Like Madam Ananya said things can be true considering her perspective.
I am also bald and a professor in a prestigious college in Bangalore, India I too got bald when I was in Degree I endured all the ill things friends and other people of my age used to taunt, I tried all the medicine in this world to reverse I also studied the anatomy of baldness and non of my efforts could save my hairs. Ultimately I resigned to my fate and took courage and perused my career. Now i am a successful man, married with two children. Think of the success, Nothing succeeds like a success. ACCEPT YOURSELF FIRST else nobody will accept you.
Thanks and regards.
Nadeem, thank you for your opinion and sharrying it with all. I really like your look at it. Keep rocking Nadeem!
Hey MIlan, great job man, we all thank you!!
I would like to ask you which hair clipper do you use? If you can’t name it here, could you tell me in what
should I be careful in buying a hair clipper?
Thanks for everything
George, thank you for your compliment. Yes. That is a great question! Check this link here – http://baldattraction.com/attractive-bald-man-products-i-use-and-recommend/
I have been using this Hair Clipper for 2 years now and I love it. It really makes the do it yourself hair cut job very easy. I pretty much don’t have time for any useless less quality stuff that slow me down. This one is little bit more expensive, but it’s worth every penny. And it saves you so much time! Hair cut is clean and effortless with it. Anyway, I hope that helps George. Let me know how you are doing. And keep rocking!
Very good Milan, congrats from a 23 years bald man ! I have a question about the sunburn, do you use sunscreens? Natural or anything like that ? I know that Kelly Slater use just a natural sunscreens (https://surfyogis.com/products/surfscreen) with chocolate, beeswax, zinc oxide and coconut oil.
You speak about natural cream for every day. Can you explane more about it and tell me what’s your cream (if you can).
Thank you and good job bald friend !
Pierre, thank you for your question! Yes that’s pretty much what I use – coconut oil. But you have to be careful, especially when you’re just starting to tan. I still use the regular spf 50 protection whenever I go surfing. If you burn easily and you plan to stay on the sun for long time, you should use the tried and true sun lotions our there. Otherwise stick with coconut oil. When I am already tan on my head and I plan to be on the sun less than 1 hour, I use only coconut oil. I hope that helps a little Pierre.
hi, every body.
I’m not English.excuse me if I make too many mistakes.
I am 24.i am getting bald and it’s overwhelming me.i wanted to do hair transplant but its very artificial and like dolls.but I think baldness is not cool for everyone.it depends on your head shape.
i am annoying whole my family every day by complaining and nagging about losing my hair…
but i think baldness is an adjective.no one tells you to look at that attractive man.they say look at that bald.
i dont know but i have to deal with it.
there are few actors who are attractive bald because they are a fighter, not brad pitt.
Nariman, I understand your concern. It’s tough to go bald at a young age. Give yourself plenty of time Nariman. It’s ok to complain. It’s absolutely normal to hate your own bald head. But keep in the back of your mind also, that you can absolutely positivelly live attractive successful life as a bald man. Guaranteed! And you know what Nariman? You certainly will live life like that. You’re already on right track. Keep going and don’t give up! Milan
My hair receded a bit in my early 20s, then stopped receding until my early 50s. As long as I can remember even as a young boy, I wanted to go bald like one of my grandfather and one of my uncles. But at the same time I was afraid if I went bald no woman would marry me. And I didn’t dare openly admit I wanted to go bald, for fear people would think I was crazy. But I’m not crazy and I wanted to go bald the worst way. Then when I suddenly started receding in front and developed a bald spot in back I was thrilled, but I also panicked, fearing my wife would hate it … and hate me. But to my delight, my wife was thrilled that I was going bald and begged me not to do anything to prevent it. So I just let it happen. And it happened fast. In less than two years I went from Norwood 2 to Norwood 6 bald; I’m almost totally smooth shiny bald on top and partway down the back with only a wide fringe of hair on the sides and back. It shocked me how fast I went bald, but I couldn’t have been more pleased. After all those years I had finally got my wish fulfilled. And no, I didn’t have a medical condition to account for my rapid hair loss. It was just your ordinary male pattern balding sequence, only super fast. But best of all was how much my wife loves it. She loves kissing me on top of my bald head. What a turn on!
If someone discovered a ‘cure’ to male pattern baldness and a way to regrow my hair, I would flatly refuse the cure. As far as I’m concerned male pattern baldness is not an illness. It’s a healthy, normal inherited trait and I’m lucky I was chosen to go bald. My only regret is that I didn’t quickly go bald back in my late 20s right after my wife and I were married. I wish I had started shedding scalp hair on my honeymoon and had been Norwood 6 bald by our first wedding anniversary.
Am I the only guy out there who loves being bald? Is my wife the only women out there who prefers bald men? If so, I am sure a lucky guy to have married her!
You’re quite a writer Eric! Thank you for sharrying your thoughts! Milan
Please do not stop this blog.
I will not Visnu! Thank you for your note! Milan
My brother just sent me old photos and videos taken 30 years ago during a visit by me, my wife and our then very young children. Great pictures and great memories … and a few painful memories. From when I had a full head of hair. Boy, did I have a lot of hair back then, and I wore it rather long as it was fashionable back then. I understand why most women cut their long hair very short after they get married and have kids. Who needs the bother and upkeep of long hair?! I didn’t. I even shaved it all off, once, but didn’t like the way it looked or felt. I hated the stubble that grew in on top almost immediately after shaving my head. I hated the ‘hair shadow’ effect. Also, my hair was oily, so I had to wash it every day. The slightest wind and it became a tangled unkempt mess. Wearing a hat gave me an ugly ‘hat hair’ head. The ‘right look’ I was looking for was smooth shiny slick bald on top with only a well trimmed fringe on the sides and back. The male pattern bald look. I was desperate to go bald and kept checking my hairline hoping to discover that my hairline was receding. I checked the back of my head hoping to discover that I was developing a bald spot. I remember back to my senior year in college. Several of my classmates were already going bald and I envied them. One of my friends caught me looking at one of those guys enviously and must have guessed what I was wishing. She warned me: Be careful what you wish for, as you might just get your wish. I almost responded: Bring it on! but didn’t, fearing she would think I was crazy. She must have read my thoughts, because she smiled and said “It’s OK. I think bald guys are sexy and I hope some day you get your wish.” All I could do at that moment was blush bright red. And pray for a miracle.
My miracle finally arrived 20 years ago and I got my wish, but I still get bad dreams. In those dreams I have an ugly mop of unruly full head of hair and am having a ‘bad hair day’. Every time I wake up from one of those nightmares I am relieved and smile as I rub my hands across the top of my smooth, shiny bald head. Thankfully, I don’t have to worry about my hair growing back, because male pattern baldness as far advanced as mine is, is irreversible. At least I hope it is. Needless to say, if a ‘cure’ for male pattern baldness is ever discovered, I will refuse to take it. Going bald was a thrill. Being bald is even more wonderful. No more ‘bad hair days’. Yay! Gosh, how I love being bald!
Thank you for describing your experience Eric! Milan
Once again this evening my wife reminded me how happy she is that I went bald. She caught me staring into a mirror, rubbing my hand across the top of my bald head and smiling. “It’s obvious to me you love being bald” she said. She is right about that. But then she reminded me to shave the little bit of almost invisible fuzzy hair I still have on top. It is slowly disappearing, but I wish I could permanently get rid of it so I wouldn’t have to shave it off once a month. I’m Norwood 6 bald, but I wish I were Norwood 7 bald with only a narrow fringe of hair on the sides and in back. So I still have a little more balding to do. My wife suggested I use special hair removal adhesive strips to remove the remaining thin fuzzy hairs off the top of my head. She uses them to remove unwanted fuzzy facial hairs. It shouldn’t hurt, because sometimes when I pinch off fine fuzzy hairs and I don’t feel a thing. Or maybe I should just be patient and let nature take its course.
Some girls do, some girls don’t. Some girls will, some girls won’t. You have to find the girls/women who do and will like you for YOU. Im married now, and my wife could care less. She thinks a bald head is sexy. Even if I did not have my wife, I could give a frog’s fat butt about what all these shallow, gold digging, self absorbed women out here think about bald men. Im 50, and just don’t care anymore. You either like me, or you don’t. I could care less. If you don’t like me, then that’s your problem. Who gives a CRAP!
Brannon, I really like your approach! Thank you for sharing your experience! Milan
I understand what you said but, Being skinny, small wrist and Bald is not an easy start. Your physical condtion is average or a bit better than average but for those very small or skinny It is an other problem…