In my early twenties when most if my hair fell off and I was officially a young bald man, I was stuck. I was stuck in feeling sorry for myself and my way too young and bald situation. And I stayed stuck for about a year. You my fellow young going bald man might be in the same situation now too. The great news is that I eventually got unstuck and you should too.
Going bald too young and getting unstuck video:
Young going bald and stuck
It’s so easy for young going bald man to get stuck. Getting stuck in early baldness for a little while is unavoidable. What the key is to overall success for young going bald man is to get unstuck as fast as he possibly can. It took me about a year and a half, but eventually I got unstuck. I wish it happened a little earlier though. That’s why I am writing this article for you my fellow young going bald or already bald man.
I want you my fellow young going bald man to get unstuck sooner.
What it means to be stuck in your early baldness situation?
It basically means that you start holding back on your dreams and goals in life. You start telling yourself that you’re not attractive anymore and everybody else sees it the same way. Bald in your mind at very young age means simply unattractive. I’ve been there! It’s tough. And it can be devastating for your overall good feel about yourself. And than your confidence goes to toilet.
The problem with that thinking is that, it ultimately translates to your life. You don’t walk so proud and straight anymore. Your confidence is shattered, so you’re less likely to be bold in your actions. You hold back on your dreams and goals. And you feel unattractive. That my young going bald friend has to stop. And it has to stop now!
You’re young and you’re going bald. That’s a fact you need to embrace. But that single fact can’t hold you back in your life. Quite opposite! It has to motivate you to a positive action.
Young bald man, yes you, and yes I was one of you little while back, is full of energy and potential. And you need to keep fully reaching your true life potential. You can’t let your baldness hold you back.
My personal going bald too young story I wish for you too
Like I said before, I managed to get unstuck quite late, one year and few months after I got completely bald at age 23. It took me some time and trying hard, but I managed to pull it off. Now, I don’t want it to make it sound that it is easy to do. It’s not! But it’s possible. And I believe you will achieve it too my fellow going bald too young man. Your sanity and overall happiness depends on it.
So what is the process of getting unstuck in your baldness and subsequently rocking the world as an attractive successful bald man? The next section is about it.
Young going bald and getting unstuck
Few simple action steps in the beginning:
Start intensive fitness program
To boost your health, confidence, attractive look, you have to be the fittest you can be my fellow young going bald man. And I believe that achieving serious physical fitness level is single one most important goal for young bald man to get unstuck. It certainly worked for me.
I don’t want you to become a long distance runner, swimmer or biker. Do it if that’s what you love. But, yes I sound like an old broken gramophone, I am a preacher of intensive strength training. No, that doesn’t mean bodybuilding. No, no and no! I hate bodybuilding! What I preach to young bald men is to achieve athletic strong durable body and fitness. That means lifting heavy weights and playing and engaging in fun sports like tennis, surfing, soccer and volleyball. And of many, many others.
Strength training intensively and regularly with combination of playing fun sports will keep you attractive, strong, confident and healthy. And those are certainly necessary traits for getting unstuck in going bald too young negative thinking. Start getting very physically fit today my fellow young going bald man.
Don’t make girls your priority
I wrote a lot on this topic, so I am not going to go into big details here. But it simply boils down to this: When you accept the reality, it won’t hurt you. That means, don’t chase girls! Don’t feel bad when they’re not interested in you. It’s usually just your creative young brain that is telling you that. Off course they are interested in you! But you tel yourself that they are not! And that becomes a reality.
Rather, stop making them your priority consciously right now! Tell yourself this: “I am not making girls my priority. I am concentrating on myself and my overall ambitions and self improovement”! That’s it. Done deal!
So, with this kind of thinking, you’ll automatically feel better about yourself. The girls are not your priority and you made that decision. It’s your decision! Don’t worry, girls will eventually come. Of course they will! And it might become sooner than you think. It certainly happened it to me. The think is, that those girls are usually chasing what seems like they can’t have. And that’s you now! You’re not interested in them. And that attracts them to you. I know it’s kind of weird human nature. But it is what it is. If you do what I am saying, you’ll be fine and getting unstuck from early baldness situation should be much easier.
Concentrate your overall energy on your own self improvement
You’re young and you have abundant youthful energy. Now instead of letting it sabotage you, concentrate it on your overall self improvement. And there is a lot to improve. Trust me! Every each of us is a progress or decline at work. You’re either improving or declining. Now in order to progress, consistent work and energy is necessary. And you have that energy. So channel it the right way – use it to your own self improovement.
What can you improve on yourself? List is long my fellow young bald man, but let me give you few examples:
Your intelligence – learning skills, languages, music, public speaking, any skills
List goes on infinitely. You have to pick stuff to work on, that you’re inclined to love doing. But don’t get stuck there either. Keep widening your expertise and interests.
Off course this king of self improvement helps put the energy you have into a perfect chanel. And with that it helps you in getting unstuck in early baldness complex situation. Don’t underestimate it my fellow going bald too young man. It’s that important!
Set up ambitious goals in life and follow them to completion
This step kind of correlates with the one before. You are young and you have a lot of energy. Now you should be ambition! You really should! No, it’s not ok to not to be! Be ambitious! Set big goals in life for yourself! Once you do, write them down and than get to work to accomplish them. Today! And yes, it’s a lot of work. But remember, you my fellow young going bald man have a lot of youthful energy. So put it to use where it’s needed. And get unstuck at the same time.
Start building something and never stop
Building something makes us confident, happy, fulfilled humans. And we all should be building something. It’s fantastic for our brain! And you young going bald man on a mission to get unstuck need that brain steroid more than anybody else. Do some building! Start today! What can you build? Well, it’s generally up to you, but I have few recommendations.
Building something manually – woodwork, stone work, metal work, whatever
Building a family
Building financial independence
Building a house or cabin
Building a prototype of any kind
Again list goes on.
By building, you fill a need in your brain. It’s a very primal need. It’s a need to build. Your sanity, happiness, confidence depend on it. And with all they good stuff, building something helps getting unstuck in early baldness situation as well.
Going bald and getting unstuck
With these action steps you’ll be getting unstuck fast my fellow going bald too young man in your young going bald or already bald mans situation and your confidence will be rising. Carefull, you might get so confident, that you’ll get a little cocky. Which is of course a great thing! Go make it happen! Enough said.