I want you attractive bald guys to read this post all the way to the end. It’s life changing. It contains a pure wisdom from a guest, true bald attractive man Tim closing it with his life transforming message.
I received a comment from potentially very attractive bald young man recently. It made me mad. Not mad at him. Mad at this kind of mental struggle many young bald guys go through. And it’s damaging effect.
This young bald man is already bald. I don’t really know exactly his age, but I am guessing early twenties. Well, he landed on the front page of Bald Attraction website, where I am trying to keep the intro exactly how I feel about baldness – incredibly positive, nothing to stress about and urge everybody to take it to their advantage. Yes, I strongly believe baldness is a gift that needs to be taken like that.
This young bald fellow reacted to it this way: “This is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. Women don’t like bald men. I never met a woman who likes a bald guy. They might settle for one, but they would never choose one. And BTW, your spelling is horrible.”
I probably didn’t get the exact words right, but the point is clear. I absolutely agree with the spelling. My writing has a lot of flaws. English is my second language. I am working on it. It’s a process. I think, I am getting better every time I write. I could write in my native language which is Slovak, but I wouldn’t have much impact, since very little people out there speak that language. And I want to reach as many struggling bald men out there as possible and improve their life. And making spelling mistakes in my writing is not going to stop me.
But, the main point, this young bald man is showing me with his comment is, that he is already against himself. The fact that he is bald, makes him not like himself. And this is very disturbing. I can feel the pain! It’s terrible. And it’s a locked dark circle. And this young man better get out of that circle fast! I wish he does and I believe he will. How can anybody expect being liked when he can’t even like himself. It’s quite a tragedy that needs to stop.
Bald attractive mans message
And, little bit on a much more positive tone. My true Bald Attraction fan Tim wrote me another email. He is incredibly talented writer and everything he writes makes a lot of sense. And of course, this writing is coming from a guy that experienced what a lot of bald young guys, me included did experience – Going bald too young! I shared this young bald mans comment with him and how he sees his situation, knowing that Tim will throw a bomb full of vision and wisdom on me and we can all learn from it.
His words are a true gold. And he is kind enough to let me share it. Tim’s words can make a life transforming shift in mindset for the guys who go bald too young. What an impact that is!
I truly believe, that this is a topic with a matter of life lived in a desperation, hiding, feeling unattractive and ultimately holding back what could have been, and life lived boldly, attractively and successfully to the true bold, bald attractive mans potential.
For all this, thank you very much Tim! And here is his email and message it brings:
You got it!!
I read your reply, and plan on making another post to that. I know how this young guy you mention is thinking – that being bald is unattractive, because girls think so. I thought the same thing, and hid from it under the hat (then the hair piece!!)
What’s going on there are two things – young girls, like young guys, are also insecure and afraid of their own aging process. They aren’t thinking very long about this guy losing his hair, but are thinking a LOT about their own flaws! So he mentions he’s going bald, and they are afraid about what might happen to them! I remember being 16 years old, and a guy at school who was a year older than me mentioned he was losing his hair. I didn’t think so – just thought he had a high hairline – but I thought about him for about two seconds, before I declared, “I’ll never lose my hair! I’ll use Rogaine if I do!” I was thinking a lot more about me than I was about him! So these girls are projecting their own fears onto him (which is exactly what guys do to each other a LOT when it comes to fears of hair loss!)
Secondly, EXACTLY as you say, he is being his own worst enemy on this! He is projecting himself that he is unattractive, which naturally other people are going to pick up on, and find him unattractive! I might have mentioned this before, but I was recently talking to my sister – she has a friend, who on the surface is EXTREMELY attractive, but she’s always so caught up on worrying about her flaws, that she ends up not being able to have healthy relationships! Meanwhile, one of my best friends is a girl who was born with a cleft palate – she went through more than 20 surgeries as a baby to get it fixed, and while she is also very attractive on the outside as well, you can still tell that she’s had these surgeries. However, she’s VERY comfortable with it, and volunteers with an organization that goes around the world to help kids born with cleft lip and palate. That is INCREDIBLY attractive!!
Now, a bald head is not a deformity like a cleft palate. But, it is something that most guys don’t want to experience if they can avoid it. But, if this young guy (and many others) can accept and embrace themselves, they will give off that same vibe, and do very well for themselves!
Amen to these words. And it all comes down to: Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Get through that initial period of noticing baldness, embrace it and use it to your advantage. I don’t want to use my fathers words, that are so cliche: Be a man! And I hated it so much when he said that! So, no I don’t want you to be a man. Just get over yourself and use that young vibrant energy to your advantage. You can move the world with it. And you might as well use some of it to become attractive bald man. The most attractive man in the world! How? It’s all over this website. Now go! Make it happen!