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Bald too young and taking advantage of it

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I want you attractive bald guys to read this post all the way to the end. It’s life changing. It contains a pure wisdom from a guest, true bald attractive man Tim closing it with his life transforming message.

I received a comment from potentially very attractive bald young man recently. It made me mad. Not mad at him. Mad at this kind of mental struggle many young bald guys go through. And it’s damaging effect.

This young bald man is already bald. I don’t really know exactly his age, but I am guessing early twenties. Well, he landed on the front page of Bald Attraction website, where I am trying to keep the intro exactly how I feel about baldness – incredibly positive, nothing to stress about and urge everybody to take it to their advantage. Yes, I strongly believe baldness is a gift that needs to be taken like that.

This young bald fellow reacted to it this way: “This is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. Women don’t like bald men. I never met a woman who likes a bald guy. They might settle for one, but they would never choose one. And BTW, your spelling is horrible.”

I probably didn’t get the exact words right, but the point is clear. I absolutely agree with the spelling. My writing has a lot of flaws. English is my second language. I am working on it. It’s a process. I think, I am getting better every time I write. I could write in my native language which is Slovak, but I wouldn’t have much impact, since very little people out there speak that language. And I want to reach as many struggling bald men out there as possible and improve their life. And making spelling mistakes in my writing is not going to stop me.

But, the main point, this young bald man is showing me with his comment is, that he is already against himself. The fact that he is bald, makes him not like himself. And this is very disturbing. I can feel the pain! It’s terrible. And it’s a locked dark circle. And this young man better get out of that circle fast! I wish he does and I believe he will. How can anybody expect being liked when he can’t even like himself. It’s quite a tragedy that needs to stop.

Bald attractive mans message

And, little bit on a much more positive tone. My true Bald Attraction fan Tim wrote me another email. He is incredibly talented writer and everything he writes makes a lot of sense. And of course, this writing is coming from a guy that experienced what a lot of bald young guys, me included did experience – Going bald too young! I shared this young bald mans comment with him and how he sees his situation, knowing that Tim will throw a bomb full of vision and wisdom on me and we can all learn from it.

His words are a true gold. And he is kind enough to let me share it. Tim’s words can make a life transforming shift in mindset for the guys who go bald too young. What an impact that is!

I truly believe, that this is a topic with a matter of life lived in a desperation, hiding, feeling unattractive and ultimately holding back what could have been, and life lived boldly, attractively and successfully to the true bold, bald attractive mans potential.

For all this, thank you very much Tim! And here is his email and message it brings:

You got it!!

I read your reply, and plan on making another post to that. I know how this young guy you mention is thinking – that being bald is unattractive, because girls think so. I thought the same thing, and hid from it under the hat (then the hair piece!!)

What’s going on there are two things – young girls, like young guys, are also insecure and afraid of their own aging process. They aren’t thinking very long about this guy losing his hair, but are thinking a LOT about their own flaws! So he mentions he’s going bald, and they are afraid about what might happen to them! I remember being 16 years old, and a guy at school who was a year older than me mentioned he was losing his hair. I didn’t think so – just thought he had a high hairline – but I thought about him for about two seconds, before I declared, “I’ll never lose my hair! I’ll use Rogaine if I do!” I was thinking a lot more about me than I was about him! So these girls are projecting their own fears onto him (which is exactly what guys do to each other a LOT when it comes to fears of hair loss!)

Secondly, EXACTLY as you say, he is being his own worst enemy on this! He is projecting himself that he is unattractive, which naturally other people are going to pick up on, and find him unattractive! I might have mentioned this before, but I was recently talking to my sister – she has a friend, who on the surface is EXTREMELY attractive, but she’s always so caught up on worrying about her flaws, that she ends up not being able to have healthy relationships! Meanwhile, one of my best friends is a girl who was born with a cleft palate – she went through more than 20 surgeries as a baby to get it fixed, and while she is also very attractive on the outside as well, you can still tell that she’s had these surgeries. However, she’s VERY comfortable with it, and volunteers with an organization that goes around the world to help kids born with cleft lip and palate. That is INCREDIBLY attractive!!

Now, a bald head is not a deformity like a cleft palate. But, it is something that most guys don’t want to experience if they can avoid it. But, if this young guy (and many others) can accept and embrace themselves, they will give off that same vibe, and do very well for themselves!

Amen to these words. And it all comes down to: Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Get through that initial period of noticing baldness, embrace it and use it to your advantage. I don’t want to use my fathers words, that are so cliche: Be a man! And I hated it so much when he said that! So, no I don’t want you to be a man. Just get over yourself and use that young vibrant energy to your advantage. You can move the world with it. And you might as well use some of it to become attractive bald man. The most attractive man in the world! How? It’s all over this website. Now go! Make it happen!

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Bald too young story

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I occasionally receive an email from Bald Attraction Fans with their story. I love, love, love receiving these email. I am very thankful for them. And I am very humbled by them. It really makes me feel that I am making a difference and helping and that means everything to me. Thank you attractive bald guys out here!

Thank you, all of you guys out there, who support the work I am doing here on Bald Attraction. Even you guys who don’t. That only validates, that this passion of mine, my life project – helping men, especially those very young ones to embrace their baldness fast and use it to their advantage. And help them to become very confident, bold attractive bald men right away.

Here is the email I received from Tim. Thank you Tim! You really opened my eyes even wider to understand the pain young balding guys go through. That matters not only to me, but a lot of young guys will benefit from it as well:

Milan,

I posted on your site a few weeks back, and just signed up for the newsletter yesterday, and wanted to thank you again for putting together such a positive site!

I suppose you could say I am also an attractive bald man, albeit with a bit of a different angle!

As I posted on your page, I’m probably a year or two younger than you, and started losing my hair when I was 17 – I completely panicked. I was overweight as a kid, but worked hard to get very fit when I was about 14-15. Life was great! I got a lot of attention from girls, and was looking forward to the future.

When I noticed hair all over my pillow a few months after I turned 17, I freaked – over the next few years, I’d try the drugs – Rogaine and Propecia – all kinds of herbal creams, standing on my head – and NOTHING worked! When I graduated college at 23, it was pretty bad and I had been wearing a hat all the time for a few years – I still got girls, but really hated how I looked without the hat. I was very demoralized. I had really loved my hair, and now just a few years later I had a combover and was taking some jokes from friends! None of my close family was bald, and I only knew one friend who was losing his hair – at the time, it wasn’t nearly as bad as mine was.

Here’s where I could have really used your site! But, it was 2002, and there was no YouTube, and no real websites where you could talk to other guys who were going through it or recently gone through it. I saw the ads for Hair Club for Men all over TV, including one during the Super Bowl that year, and figured I would go in and see what it was all about.

I admit, the guys I met there looked great – the guy who really sold me was 36, and looked exactly what 23 year old me thought I should look like at 36. So I went for it, even though I didn’t really understand what I was in for. I was really shocked when I realized they were shaving down the top of my head and gluing a wig on me! I held it together until I got out, then drove to a Starbucks, where I threw up in the bathroom.

A few days later, I saw myself in the mirror, and standing there was the old “me” that I had liked so much – I did look great, and soon was getting attention from younger girls again even when not wearing a hat. But I didn’t feel quite right – like I was hiding who I really was! That continued over several years, and I didn’t tell anybody about what I’d done. Not until several years ago, when I had been dating a girl for a few years, did I tell someone about it.

And, as you say, SHE DIDN’T CARE. She didn’t care if I was bald, or if I had hair, though she did like my “hair.” But she did care that I had been embarrassed about being bald, and what I’d done about it! After we broke up and I started dating another girl, I told her and she didn’t care either! I’ve since told a lot of people, and NOBODY cares!

Exactly as you have said on your site, NOBODY cares if you are bald if you are confident and comfortable with who you are! This is extremely difficult for a young, balding man to come to grips with – I thought it would be impossible to be the person I wanted to be without my hair, and I was NEVER so wrong! I don’t think there is anything wrong with wearing a hair system, if you’re comfortable with what you’re doing and who you are, but I think it’s a LOT easier for most guys if they cut it short and work on rebuilding their confidence!

So I think what you’re doing is incredibly important – I don’t know what it is like for other guys to lose their hair, but when it happens as a teen, it’s really hard! You need good role models to show you that it’s not the end of the world, and that’s exactly what you’re doing! When I was 17, I thought being bald would be a disaster – now, if a guy is fit and dresses well, I think it can be a really good look! So thank you for helping the younger guys out there, and I’ll look forward to more posts on the site!

Tim.

Again, I am incredibly humbled by this email. Thank you Tim again! You are truly Attractive Bald Man. And at the same time, I feel responsibility to keep going with this incredibly passionate project of mine – Bald Attraction, to keep spreading the message and helping especially you young guys out there, who go through something Tim a I and many, many others went through before and those many who will go through in very young age. Let’s help them become Confident, Bold, Attractive, Bald Men.

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Bald attractive man is very confident man. He works on his confidence by observing overconfident people and learns from them. Gaining confidence is like yoga exercise. It’s never about destination. It’s always about the process, action, learning and self respect.

Confidence for attractive bald man – part 5 video:

http://youtu.be/18tSAuN0_EY

Yes, Axel, the GNR frontman was maybe an As…e! I will let you be the judge of that. But he was certainly a very confident man. Now, I want you to think about why you think he was such an overconfident man. Our next articles and videos about confidence for attractive bald man will focus on this topic. Stay tuned my future very attractive and very confident bald friend.

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Confidence for attractive bald man – part 2

Confidence for attractive bald man – part 3

Confidence for attractive bald man – part 4

Going bald too young – part 4

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I will tell you a story my going bald too young friend. But promise me you keep it a secret! It’s a true story! Goes after the video.

Going bald too young – part 4 video:

http://youtu.be/KYcLRtqiHec

Going bald too young reality

I was 22 and already almost completely bald. It was a winter of 2003. Life was pretty hard. On top of it, it was a very cold winter back in Eastern European capital of Slovakia – Bratislava. Like I said before, I lost a family member. Very important family member. I moved back from San Francisco, where I planed to stay another year after finding out about my loss. And as soon as I got home, the tough reality set in. Dark, cold, short winter days magnified the pressures of life.

Boy, I can tell you, these were the hardest times of my life without a doubt. I didn’t have place to live, I had to finish one more tough year of college, all my money was gone, and on top of it, I was getting bald. And I hated that the most. Common! Hair! I am only 22! What’s up with this? I would scream in front of the mirror.

Going bald too young mindset switch

In the middle of my depressing Eastern European November, I had an epiphany. Things got so hard. I was lying on the sofa of my brothers apartment staring into the wall and thinking all the negative thoughts there are. TV was on on some Austrian Chanel. I wasn’t watching it, I just needed some noise in the background. Suddenly, I heard this famous song from Rocky 3 movie. And I started really listening to it. Yes Rocky movie was on.

Suddenly my mood improoved. My thoughts became positive. I know, I know, it sounds very cheesy. But it is truth. And I decided than and there, that I am going to fight like hell to get through all my problems.

I didn’t watch the Rocky movie. I have seen it before. I got up immediately from the sofa and cut my hair short. I put running shoes on, jacked and got out of the apartment to the cold November evening in the city. While I run outside for an hour, the Eye of a tiger song still in my ears, I made a plan in my mind. And I decided there and than, that my bald head is not going to hold me back! I was going to use it to my advantage.

Going bald too young new reality

I started to find a meaning and some kind of joy in a wild roller coaster of my daily life. I really started succeeding in dealing with my crises, I achieved best physical fitness in my life, I found my new direction. What was it? To finish my school, deal with all the crises I had to deal with that time and in a perfect health eventually rise my middle finger and go back to US. No, not because I didn’t like my birth country Slovakia. Not at all. I am still very proud that I am from there. I am still proud Slovakian. All I wanted to do is to start over, fresh and intensivelly. And what is the best place for that? I will answer that question for you: CALIFORNIA!!!

This gave me a sense of direction and purpose in this part of my life. And at the same time, my confidence grew and grew everyday. I got incredibly confident in myself and my abilities. Almost to the unhealthy levells. I will write another article about that some other time 🙂

Going bald too young sweet reminders

I had a few of them. But, I will share the one I valued the most that time. I was 22, and of course I was interested in girls. Well, would you thing that my bald head was an obstacle to meet attractive girls? Not at all.

Between all my problems I had to face and business of life that time, I still managed to go out, do some skiing and have some fun. On one skiing New Years trip to Slovakian mountains we met pretty fun group of very attractive young people. Guess who was the only bald guy there? Yes, it was me. Did that bother me? Not anymore!!!

Bragging moment!

There were guys, my buddies in good shape an bunch of very attractive girls. One of them a recent miss Slovakia runner up and another great looking girl we were all interested in! Well guess who they both ended up interested in. Yes, the only bald guy in the group. I din’t have to do much. They made the move. They showed their attraction to me. I am not a womanizer or anything like that. Long story short, I ended up having a date or 2 with one of them. We discovered that we were not a great fit, I was busy, living out of the suitcase in my brothers apartment, scraping some money to survive and so on. There was not time for me to pursue any serious relationships.

Another bragging moment!

But the point is, that my bald head didn’t matter! These two most attractive women in our big group of guys were interested in the only bald guy there. Why? I already mentioned that before. You actions create consequences, your overcomed obstacles, your physical fitness, your known direction and few more things create the amazing and attractive thing everybody can possess: intelligent CONFIDENCE!

What made all the difference? Yes, I was in great shape, but so were the other guys. I wasn’t stupid, but so weren’t the other guys. Was I fun to be around? Yes! But so were the other guys! But I had something the other guys seemed to be lacking. I had incredible CONFIDENCE. And people tend to gravitate to it. It’s very attractive to other people. Of course it needs to be an intelligent confidence.

Now my going bald too young friend, I wanted to prove a point to you, that there is a hope. Going bald too young is hard. It is a very hard thing to go throug. But it is not a death sentence to your love and social life. Quite opposite opposite is truth. It can be a huge advantage. All those things I mentioned above are learnable traits. Some of them take a lot of work. But everything that’s valuable in life does. I urge you to lift your head up my 17 or 16 or 23 year old early balding friend. Get inspired! And most importantly, get to work! Great days lie ahead of you!

Going bald too young series:

Going bald too young – part 1

Going bald too young – part 2

Going bald too young – part 3

Going bald too young – part 5

Going bald too young – part 3

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You are going bald too young. It’s hard! It’s depressing! I know. I’ve been there! It was the worst period of my life. But what I know now, I wish I knew than. Your bald head is not going to make you less attractive. Going bald too young is not an attractiveness killer. Great days lie ahead of you my going bald too early friend!

Going bald too young – part 3 video:

http://youtu.be/C4B_LF46pfU

I always wanted to have a hair like Axel, the old Guns n’ Roses front man 🙂 But when I looked in the mirror in my early twenties, I knew that, it won’t be possible. And I hated that fact! I really, really, really hated it! And I wish somebody told me what I am about to tell you now.

People don’t care that you are bald. People don’t find that less attractive on you. No, no, no! How do I know? I got more hot dates in my life after I got bald than ever before. Baldness can be incredibly attractive!

Different things matter to your overall attractiveness. Things you can control. Move on my going bald too young friend. Great days lie ahead of you!

Going bald too young series:

Going bald too young – part 1

Going bald too young – part 2

Going bald too young – part 4

Going bald too young – part 5

Going bald too young – part 2

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Young men out there are going crazy about going bald too young! It’s killing their positive energy. And it needs to stop!

Going bald too young – part 2 video:

http://youtu.be/Dvsr-ol7IFg

If you think you are the youngest man out there going bald, you are wrong. There are younger ones. And they suffer as well. And it needs to stop! It needs to stop right now!

People don’t care that you are bald. You can have the hottest dates out there, every day, even if you don’t have a hair left on your head. What really matters is what you do as a early balding guy. How confident you are! How fit you are! How intelligent you are! How interesting you are! And let me repeat that one more time: How really, really, really confident you are!!!

It’s time to stop worrying about going bald too young. Throw it behind your back and move on. Like I said in my video. If you are going bald too young, stop that negative mental madness, cut it short and fantastic days lie ahead of you!

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Going bald too young – part 1

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Going bald too young is a problem many men out there face. And they hate it! It comes too early. I am one of those guys! It would really put me down when I saw my head starting getting bald at 21. By the time I was 23, I was completely bald. So, I understand you my early balding friend. It’s not fun!

But there is hope! And a big hope! It took me some time to realize it. There is a solution for men out there, who are going bald way too young.

Going bald too early – part 1 video:

http://youtu.be/JNnF7vgznWE

Let me summarize it here under my first video. If you are going bald too early, and you just noticed it, it’s the most difficult time to go through. I wish there was somebody like me telling me what I am about to tell you.

I know it’s easy for me to tell you this, but I still will. Stop waisting your emotional and positive energy on worrying about your early balding. Great days lye ahead of you! I know. I know! I was there. And I repeat: It is easy for me to say this now, 15 years later after I got bald. But I learned a lot in those fifteen years my friend.

So what I learned? Now get ready for this! You might really like it.

First thing I learned as a too young balding man:

My hot girlfriends never cared about my bald head. And let me just tell you, I was dating some really hot women. You might even have heard of some of them. The point is, that they never cared that I am bald. Yes, each of them were beautiful and intelligent. And all of them had high standards. And they had high standards for their partner too. I repeat, high standards! They required certain stuff from their partner. That’s what intelligent, beautiful people do.

And I am pretty sure, you too want to attract these partners. Intelligent, beautifull, good people. So guess what? I will reveal a secret with you. My girlfriends never cared about my bald head. They never even mentioned it once. I Repeat: My incredibly hot and intelligent girlfriends never cared than I am actually 22 years old bald guy!

Second thing I learned as too young balding man:

My former employees preferred me to other applicants. My balding head was clearly helping me in this. I learned that in professionals circles, bald head is actually an incredible advantage.

I would get almost always promoted more than the other guys in every job I had. Yes, I was ambitious, and I was always on time. And I did my jobs right. But so did the other guys! So what made the difference? I can’t help myself, but give a credit to my bald head.

Later on in my own personal training consulting practice I found my bald head to be an incredible advantage. My schedule was and still is always full of clients. I have a waiting list and I charge double than other trainers out there. Shouldn’t you be a perfectly looking with hair in this incredibly competitive field? You know the answer to that question now. NO!

Yes I do my job professionally and right. But in my industry that’s just the ticket of entry. I am clearly succeeding because of my bald head and my confidence that comes with it!

Third thing I learned as too young balding man:

I learned things that really matter to overall attractiveness of a man. And let me just tell you, that the bald head is not one of them. Your bald head doesn’t matter at all to your overall attractiveness!

The true attractiveness of a man is build on stuff we can all control. These stuff take work. They take hard work. But, in order to be an attractive man, every man, not only bald man has to work on them.

So what are they? You can see sings of them all over this web site.

It’s being physically fit. That takes work!

It’s being healthy and having a lot of energy. That takes work!

It’s being interesting. That takes work!

It’s being intelligent. That takes work!

It’s not being boring. That takes work!

It’s being ambitious. That takes work!

It’s being helpful. That takes work!

It’s being incredibly confident. That takes work!

We are all different. And we all can apply all of these or a combination of these fantastic traits in our life’s. And with that, we become incredibly attractive.

Parting words for future attractive too early balding man.

I know it is hard to deal with your early balding head right now. But, let me just tell you, that great days lie ahead of you. Your balding head doesn’t really matter to your overall attractiveness. It’s a think, you can’t control. It really is. And other people know it too. But there are things you can control, that can make you incredibly attractive. The question here is my going bald too young friend: Are you willing to apply them?

Going bald too young series:

Going bald too young – part 2

Going bald too young – part 3

Going bald too young – part 4

Going bald too young – part 5