Mistakenly young going bald or already bald man who asks the question – Is baldness attractive? He shoots for perfection. You think and I used to think too that in order to be truly attractive man who’s bald I have to be perfect! And perfect at every aspect of my life. Fitness, looks, behavior, confidence and style!
Wrong!
That is exactly a receipt for failure. You’ll crash and burn with this attitude! No one, even the most ambitious driven bald guys won’t be able to sustain it.
Instead you should aim for good enough, the good enough that is done! If you do good enough tasks in your day to get you more closely to becoming a man you want to be, that is a winning day.
If you do good enough tasks day in and day out, some great ones happen too. But they only happen when you do many good enough ones.
For example, today I woke up little achy. My back hurt a little and I felt that I didn’t have very good sleep. That’s all good. I drank couple cups of coffee and went about my day. I knew that no matter what, I need to get little bit of exercise, write a little, feed my mind with some joyful positive material and possibly cut my hair short to do something for my looks too. That was the plan.
It wasn’t a perfect plan. Far away from it!
It’s almost 10 am in the morning and I am done with a simple, not perfect workout 3X37 bar dips + 2X11 pull ups and some 5 minutes of yoga poses due to a back pain.
I’m feeling much better already. And while I was working out, I was listening to the book I always wanted to read – Bird by Bird from Anne Lamott.
And suddenly I feel great!
My mind and mood is up and fresh!
My blood is flowing and I am starting to feel amazing! And this article is taking shape too. Another imperfect task I set to accomplish today will be done soon!
I didn’t shoot for perfection. I went for just ok.
And at the 10 am I’m already thinking this might just become a perfect day! Oops, I should not be using that word. It shouldn’t be in anyone’s vocabulary!
Don’t shoot for perfection my fellow young going bald or already bald man, just shoot!
And keep on shooting daily!
Like I’m doing today. And few shots will hit the target. Guaranteed!
I’m telling you all this to keep you in motion my fellow attractive going bald man. Because it’s just so easy to give up. And a lot of talented people give up.
Why??
Because in their mind, it’s not worth trying if you can’t make it perfect. It’s not worth going for a run if you only have 20 min. Or going to the gym if you only have 45 min.
Maybe it’s not. But that doesn’t mean you can’t do something. And maybe or guaranteed that something turns into something big and maybe great. It happens to me all the time! Anyway if you want a secret formula for how to become attractive bald man, here it is: Keep doing imperfect things day in and day out that get you closer to your goal. And you’ll reach your goal! Guaranteed!