Young going bald or already bald man is getting a tough lesson too early from his hair loss situation. But there is a silver lining in this tough lesson. And it is the anti fragility he is achieving in the process. And Antifragile people are the ones that change the world. They are confident, attractive, successful and not afraid to fail. Becoming Antifragile is a fantastic side benefit early baldness for young man.
Going bald too young and becoming Antifragile video:
http://youtu.be/YkeVgHSaKRY
Change your mindset
I still remember those times when I would lose a tennis game, soccer game or I didn’t qualify to race in finals while I was in rowing team and I would get so down on myself. I would get depressed. I would be so afraid of losing, because I knew I’ll be depressed for quite a while after my loss. The amount of tennis rackets I’ve broken on the court is huge! I am not proud if that at all!
Now add to this my early hair loss and you’ll have an absolute wreck of a person. Yes that was me somewhere for sometime in my late teens and early twenties.
Now looking back at these time, I can’t help myself but see few wasted miserable years. Why? Because with a little mindset switch, that actually happened couple years down the road for me, I could use all these failures to my advantage and learn from them. With little mindset switch I could have been getting more and more Antifragile with every failure I experienced. And I should have celebrate these failures instead of letting them depress me.
And I want you my fellow going bald or already bald man to not make the same mistake I did.
Switch your mindset to a growth mindset today! Now!
This single action step of mindset switch will make most likely the biggest difference on your overall successful, attractive life. And you, young bald man can’t ignore that!
Antifragile people have growth mindset and they are becoming even more Antifragile in the process!
Ask yourself my fellow young going bald or already bald man in the face of adversity you’re facing:
What can I learn from this situation? How can I become better from now on? How can I use this failure positively to make me little bit more Antifragile?
The key is to not get down on yourself my fellow young going bald or already bald man when you face adversity and failure and learn from it.
And young bald men face some adversity almost every day. Now your job is to make that adversity improve you at some level, to make you more Antifragile,
to make you learn something. Every situation like this is an opportunity to grow.
And you do that with growth mindset!
Example:
Let’s say you were terribly rejected by a girl you asked out for a date. And she told you she doesn’t date bald guys. Which is B.S. Of course.
So, now instead of going down on yourself and feeling depressed about it, you shake yourself and move on without feeling bad about it.
You give yourself a credit for a bold move and guts for actually asking this girl out. That’s brave! Now, don’t turn it into anything negative. This is very positive action you just did and a huge opportunity to grow from it!
And in my experience of being nastily rejected by a girl, which actually happens very rarely, you’re the lucky one not getting involved with her. Those very pretty, very self confident girls that are willing to offend are a lot of trouble to date anyway. I made that mistake few times 🙂 Trust me, it’s not worth it!
So, now you give yourself a credit for trying and for finding out how she actually is. Fantastic! You don’t want to have anything together with her! You’re the winner in this situation. You lucky bastard! Yes you are. Now that’s a winners thinking!
That’s an Antifragile and becoming more Antifragile thinking. That’s what the mindset looks like. Apply it everywhere my fellow going bald or already bald man! Everywhere!
And watch your life change into a huge positive, growing, attractive and achieving existence! Great for you! That’s exactly what you deserve!
Just hang in there and become bulletproof
From today I want you to never go down on yourself for making mistakes, screwing up, failing and most importantly being bald!
Become bulletproof and use every mistake and face of adversity to become more bulletproof. And if you do that, you will become an Antifragile bulletproof person. That’s attractive! That’s successful! Start today!
You’ll be the last one laughing 🙂
And I really mean this in a very positive way. There is no need for revenge thinking or anything like that. That’s a waste!
But let me give you little example that happens more often than you think my fellow young going bald or already bald man.
When I was in college, I got laughed at because I was losing hair early by a perfectly looking guy, my schoolmate. We actually were kind of friends. Very shallow friends. Yes he was good looking. Yes he had a lot of hair. Yes, all girls wanted to date him.
Well 13 years later and he is a fat, tyred, ugly looking slob. Last time I saw him, he was constantly complaining about something and giving me lots of cheap compliments like: How do I get six pack like that? Dude, you don’t eat or what? Or that’s a hottie Milan, pointing at my wife.
He’s still trying to play the room, to be the man. But all you can notice is an once good looking asshole on steep decline that nobody listens too. Anyway, it happens all the time. As long as you young going bald or already bald man have the last laugh, you’re the real winner. Just my little advice here on this topic.
Attractive young going bald or already bald man, give yourself fertile grounds with your mindset to become Antifragile winner. Because that’s what us bald men were ment to be. Enough said.
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