Most bald men out there, especially those young ones lack self confidence. I’ve been there.
At around the age of 21-22 I was walking slouched with head down, I wouldn’t look straight into the peoples eyes, especially pretty girls, I hated my looks. I was a low self confident wreck! Why? I was loosing hair! I was going bald, and I knew it’s going to get worse!
15 years later I am accused of being cocky! Wow, I can’t tell you how the guy who called me cocky made my day!
Part of definition of being cocky is possessing too much confidence.
Bald men should be little cocky video:
Young going bald men and low self confidence
If you are young and you’re going or are already bald, you’re most likely suffering by low confidence. You think that people don’t find you attractive. It overtakes your mind, and it eats your confidence and true life potential away.
Again. I’ve been there!
But I say enough of this madness! Let’s get so confident, that we actually become little cocky!
Young going bald men and getting little cocky!
Now we are talking! I would love to see every young going bald too early man getting so confident in himself, in his looks and his abilities to the point of getting little cocky!
I simply want you to experience something I experienced yesterday.
There was a guy with a beautiful hair who named me cocky. He said: You’re getting little cocky dude! With a perfect Californian cocky slang. And he certainly didn’t mean that as a compliment.
I was thinking about this a little and than I realized, that this young man with hair is actually cocky himself. And he doesn’t like a bald guy being cocky!
Well, my thinking goes like this: “In this guys mind he thinks: Dude you’re bald, stop behaving like you’re behaving and crawl under the table. Go hide! You’re bald dude! You have no business to be so confident that you’re cocky”!
My prehistoric Milan, just hearing that thought in my mind would jump on this guy like a leopard and reap him in 1000 pieces.
But than, after thinking a little, I just said: Thank you! Thank you for compliment! You made my day! Than he cringed and left.
How to get little cocky for young going bald guys
As I said, I find people with healthy dose of cockiness being very confident. So let’s get there my fellow young bald man.
So how do you increase your confidence, so you become automatically little cocky?
I believe it’s a process of learning how to like and respect yourself who you are. And it’s a process achievable to everyone.
There are few things to work on and I describe all of them in my Confidence for attractive bald men series.
3 main things building your overall confidence are – great physical fitness, not braking promises with yourself and you do it by switching your mindset to growth mindset and than cultivating it by learning by failing.
You’re fit young going bald man in your early 20ties. You’re sitting in your schools library studying for an exam.
Now you notice good looking girl in front of you few tables forward. You make brief eye contact with this beauty.
Now you start really thinking about asking her to have a coffee with you and or if you can email her.
Great! You force yourself to make the move and get in from of this girl. You ask her: “Hi, my name is Bob and I find you incredibly attractive. I don’t want to interrupt your studying, but is there any chance I can have your email address (don’t ask for phone number, it’s easier to get email) and maybe we can get a coffee some day together”?
Now you’re facing 2 possibilities that can happen. She will either give you her email address. And that’s great, keep it and take her out!
But most likely, you’re going to get answer like this: I am sorry I don’t have a time, I don’t have an email (BS) I have a boyfriend or something like that.
O boy, I received so many answers like that in my younger years. And funny thing is, I ended up dating few of those girls that told me basically to F… Off.
Now this is your chance to flex your growth mindset muscles and make them stronger.
Most guys when they get rejected, they get upset, crawl under the bed and their confidence is shattered. Now this is wrong self sabotaging attitude.
There is very high chance you’ll get rejected by this girl, even if you look like Kelly Slater or Brad Pitt. Those pretty girls want to make it difficult for us. It’s part of the game. So you can’t take it personal. Take it like it will certainly happen. And it won’t hurt you.
I want you to react like this: “She said no! She has a reason for it. And that doesn’t mean she won’t go out with me in the future. And I am proud of myself of trying. And I am proud of myself of failing, because I acted. And I am more experienced now and I learned to face little adversity”!
Now that’s a growth mindset! You don’t get down on yourself for failing. You celebrate trying, failing and learning! And you want to apply this kind of attitude to everything you do in life.
And that’s how little cockiness emerges eventually. So young bald guys out there, let’s get together little cocky. And let’s celebrate it too!