One of my favorite personal mantras in life as a Bald Man is this one: Live with no regrets, life is short. And it is one big truth. Some people might get depressed by realization of this simple truth and dramatic sounding of it: Life is short!
But I want you to take it little differently Attractive Bald Man in making. I look at it from this perspective: In the large scheme of life, little failures and also the big ones don’t really matter. When people laugh at you, it doesn’t mater. We are often very depressed about it. But like I said before, on the large scheme of life they won’t matter at all. This simple mantra makes me live bolder and more daring life. And I want you Attractive Bald Man in making to live life like that too.
On the opposite of that, what really matters, and it matters a lot is not missing your chances in life. Not missing your opportunities and trying fiercely to get what you want. Life with regrets is not a pleasant life to live. I know a lot of “Successful” people, who are incredibly miserable because they didn’t pursue something they always wanted, either it is having kids, being afraid to connect with their potential partner, not starting that business and so on. So why am I telling you this Attractive Bald Man?
Living without regrets applies to you, me and everybody out there. You already are and incredibly attractive and quality man to be around. So don’t hold back by being afraid to ask that most attractive woman in the room out. Do it! Even if you sweat from the fear of failure. This is your opportunity. This is your chance. So go do it! And if you get rejected, you’ll most likely get rejected very nicely and that hot woman will really actually like you lot. Common! You gave her an incredible compliment. The compliment of feeling good about herself. This attractive man asked me out! Enough gibre, gabre, go do it and ask that most beautiful woman out! Now!
Bald mans guide to attract beautiful women and get date fast – part 11 video:
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Feel the fear and do it anyway
So the situation S came. You’re out and about in the coffee shop on the Saturday morning and you spot the woman of your dreams. Now what? Get your coffee, don’t think much about the situation. It’s a done deal. You are approaching this woman now. And even if that means every person in the coffee shop sees you. They all most likely want to do the same. Yes, they will hate you and some of them, actually all of them will also admire you too. Why? Because every man notices the most beautiful woman in the room. And every man fantasizes about going out with her. But pretty much every man is not brave enough to get up and ask her out.
Well, now you know it already very Attractive Bald Man. And I am not expecting you to not be nervous about this situation. It’s nerve wrecking! I know it is. And you might find a few drops of sweat dropping from your forehead. But the same way you see this difficult situation, the same way everybody else feels about this situation. That beautiful hopefully also intelligent woman included. She thinks this way: “Look at all these men. They all want me. But non of them is willing to anything about it”. Well, she is wrong. You are going to do something about it.
So my friend, if you go and do it, ask this beautiful woman out, and I will tell you the most effective way to do it soon, it is going to be considered as an incredibly bold, brave move. And trust me here, that BW – beautiful woman, will see it the same way. How many men do you thing asked her out last month. Yes you guessed it right. Exactly 0. So my attractive bald friend, you’ll immediately become very special to her.
No, no. I am not saying that you’ll become special to her as a someone that she is close to. No, that comes later. You’ll appear as a man who is bold, afraid but conquering his fears, a man who is not going to miss his chances. And, on top of it, and I already talked about it, you are giving her a compliment. Yes, even those most beautiful women doubt their beauty. They want constant reassurance from good looking guy like you on regular bases. I know, I have one of those beauties at home. It really is like that.
Attractive bald man, you decided, that you are going to approach this beautiful woman and it’s a done deal. Now how do you go about it? I have a strategy that always worked for me.
Anatomy of asking a beautiful woman out
Now is the time. Now or newer. Don’t wait for a perfect situation! Even if that means having to go into the back of the line for your coffee. It’s a good tradeoff, trust me 🙂 Now is the perfect moment. I will describe myself how I used to ask beautiful women out. I don’t do it anymore. I am happily married to the most beautiful woman on earth. But I used the similar technique to make her mine.
Here it goes: She is there. She is just getting her coffee and you just came. You see her and within few minutes, you should know if you are attracted to her. If you are, it’s action time! She gets her coffee and she is either leaving the coffee shop or pouring some more milk in her coffee or going to sit down. It really doesn’t matter. It’s time to approach her. I repeat: It’s bold action time for attractive bald man!
So, at this moment I am abandoning everything what I am doing right now. Yes, even if I was a garbage truck driver on the street working and my coworkers with supervisor included are waiting, and facing being fired if I do this, I am still doing it! This is my chance. And I live life not missing chances. I come close to he and try to face her, if she is walking I will try to walk with her.
Now my learned line comes: I find you very beautiful. Look straight into her eyes. Now I follow: Is there any chance I can have your email address. Asking for email instead of phone number is crucially important. It’s less personal. It’s much easier for beautiful woman to give you her email address, than to give you her phone number, especially if you are a good looking guy she sees first time.
Now I follow with my learned line: You can give me the fake one if you want to. I would like to take you for a coffee someday? Now wait for reaction. She will hesitate, even if she finds you very attractive. That’s what beautiful women do. It’s suppose to be hard to get their contact and they are very well aware of that. They want to make it purposefully hard for you! That’s the way it is. That’s their game they are playing. So, she might say something like this. Thank you, not now, I am married or I leave on east coast, or something like that. And that’s ok. Or she might pull her business card right from her pocked and give it to you.
Now one thing that is very helpful, almost necessary in this situation, is to have a pen and something to write on. You can not expect them to start looking for a pan and paper. No, you’re the one who is in charge here and you have to be ready. So, show her the pen and paper, index cards work better and smile. And see what she says.
There is a pretty high chance you’ll get rejected. And sometimes there is a valid reason for that. This beautiful woman is married, has a child home, has a loving boyfriend and so on. But let me tell you this. Some of the most beautiful women that rejected me for a a very good reason told me at that moment when I asked, that they really appreciate my compliments to them but they are so and so involved. Than they smiled, I smiled back and I said thank you and told them again how beautiful they were. Yes, I left this situation without a contact, but boy did I feel like a winner when I sat back to my car after. I was able to make a bold, scary move and I succeeded. And I made somebody feel good about herself with my compliment.
Now, she might want to give it to you right away. Stars are aligned perfectly, she is single and she is looking for a perfect guy. And you are one! But, as I said before, she desperately wants to make it harder for you. So what she will do is: She will smile, act pleasantly, but she will find a way of not really giving you her email address. And that’s ok. That’s actually to be expected. Now what you do next is, you ask her if she comes to this particular place where you met her regularly and if you could see her here again tomorrow, or next week. Set up the question, so she can answer either yes or no. Make it dead easy for her. And she will most likely say yes.
Next time you show up, and she is there, just smile at her. She will most likely smile back. Look at her few times, smile, but don’t do anything else. Now you know, she will be there the third time. And when you see her the third time, approach her again and ask if you can have that email address again. She is waiting for that by now! And you’ll certainly receive it. I am sorry you have to go through this game Attractive Bald Man, but unfortunately or fortunately that’s here to stay.
Now when you receive that email from that beautiful woman, email her the same day, and ask her very politely to have a coffee with you some day, or go for a run, or play tennis with her, or go to the concert, something that is not too pushy. I generally avoided asking beautiful women to a dinner on first date. It seams little pushy. And from here I will let your creativity and charm enter the scene. It’s up to you what you do next. But if she’s what you want, and you have her email address, persist and get that first date with her. You’re a quality attractive man, that all women want to be around. Have that always in the back of your mind Attractive Bald Man!
You were rejected, now what?
Now, occasionally I got really rejected. And sometimes it was kind of ugly due to a very attractive woman that wasn’t really intelligent. Or she wasn’t a nice person in the first place. Or she just had a bad day. Now, what do you do in this kind of situation. The short answer to that question is: Celebrate!
Why to celebrate in this unfortunate situation? First, you actually got the chance to find out what was this woman really about? And that’s great, there is not a reason to pursue her anymore. Trust me, you don’t want to be around beautiful, but not very nice woman anyway. And all that she might go through, maybe a bad day. But it doesn’t matter. Things didn’t go successfully and those situations will come. They are here to stay. They are learning experiences.
So, you actually grew from this experience my fellow Attractive Bald Man. Every time you try this kind of very uncomfortable action, your tolerance to them increases. You ultimately succeeded my bald attractive friend! Now, you’re actually better of. You didn’t have yes before you asked and you don’t have yes after you asked. All you have is an incredible experience that is very valuable. Plus with all that, you feel better about yourself. You didn’t brake a promise with yourself. You acted! And that’s incredibly valuable to your overall self confidence and success. Plus, you gave somebody a compliment! You didn’t do anything wrong!
Bald mans guide to attract beautiful women and get date fast summary:
You Bald Attractive Man now know, that those most attractive women don’t really care about hair on a guy. No they don’t. And if you went through the whole series of this program, you now know what is that attractive stuff the most beautiful and intelligent women look for. And you know it takes work. And you also know, that it is ultimately in your control.
Now the question my fellow Attractive Bald Man in making is: Are you willing to take this control into your hands and make it a reality? I hope you answered yes to that question and you’re already busy acting, learning, getting fit, having style, being interesting, being bold and living without regrets. Now go rock the world as an Attractive Bald Man who dates only the most beautiful and intelligent women out there. And yes, they do look for a man like you. Now go, make it happen!
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