Attractive bald man on mission, you’ve been following this program – Bald mans guide to attract beautiful women and get date fast, and you’ve been working hard. Yes, it is a hard work! Why am I saying that? I am saying that because it is closely related to our step 10. Our step number 10 in Bald mans guide to attract beautiful women and get date fast is – to become very confident bald man. So what does confidence have to do with what we talked in our previous steps? Everything!
Confidence is a state of mind that doesn’t come free. With that I mean the earned confidence. That’s the true confidence, that cannot be destroyed. Confident people who don’t have any way to back up their confidence usually fall flat on their faces eventually. But you are different, attractive confident bald man on mission. You follow these steps that are necessary to follow and yes they take a lot of work. But as long as you stick with it and don’t brake promises with yourself, your confidence will grow proportionally with your results of hard work. I strongly believe in that.
Bald mans guide to attract beautiful women and get date fast – part 10 video:
http://youtu.be/boQ1rOxhznM
Effort is attractive
So what do you think Attractive Bald Man on mission, beautiful women find attractive on men? In my experience it’s: firm butts 🙂 , intelligence, hard bodies – yes six pack abs included, sense of humor, fun to be around, positive outlook on life, boldness and few other things. Do you agree? Did I mention hair there? No I didn’t! I didn’t, because that doesn’t matter to them at all. So as you can see, all these beautiful things that attractive intelligent women look for in men take effort. Yes, the plain, old fashioned effort!
Persistent effort builds confidence
You are more likely to face a beautiful woman if you are fit, well dressed, in balance, have lots of fun in your life, you know you’re an interesting man and so on. You automatically face these attractive women with confidence. Your confidence is backed up by your persistent effort.
Let me give you one example where effort applied in my confidence in my life. This example is unrelated to dating and attracting beautiful women, but the similar forces are at play.
I am a recreational tennis player. I have two very young kids, I work full time. Life is very busy. So you can imagine that finding time to practice tennis, to become better in facing my opponents and potentially winning (yes, recreational tennis is still very competitive) is not easy to find. But about a year and a half ago I promised myself that I am going to practice at least for an hour 4 times per week. And if I don’t find a partner to do it with at late evening times, my partner will become a wall. Yes, boring wall that always returns shoots. It’s the kind of tennis partner always available when I am available.
Since 1 year and a half ago I made this promise to myself to practice and improve in tennis. And I haven’t broken this promise of mine since. I kept and keep showing up regularly in front of that wall 4 times per week. Rain or shine, early morning or late night when I can barely see the ball, I keep showing up and practice. Trust me, I wanted to quite long time ago. But I didn’t. I forced myself to persist and I did. And the result?
I played a tennis match yesterday. One of many this year. And guess what. I was entering the court with confidence. I was playing against very good player. I believed I could win. Why? Because I knew what’s behind it – constant persistent work. The kind of work that often makes you quit.
The combination of hard work that proceeded this match and many before it, and believe in my abilities (read – confidence) won this match. And it wasn’t even close. I sent the guy home with a pretty clear easy upset. The kind of win I wasn’t really used to before.
So Attractive Bald soon to be very confident man, this same principle applies in facing beautiful intelligent women, asking them out and feeling and being very attractive to them. Don’t underestimate it. In the back of your mind, you’ll already know if you deserve to be confident. So do you? Can you back it up with your effort? You can ultimately answer that question for yourself.
If you follow through you’ll be only one of few
Why there is not that many attractive, confident people out there in the world? Because the true confidence takes effort and people don’t do very well with effort. Effort is uncomfortable and it hurts sometime. Plus there are so many other pleasant things to do these days, beside effort.
But, Attractive Bald Man on mission, this is also where your biggest opportunity lies. Since it is unlikely that very many men out there, those with beautiful hair included, who will do well with effort and they’ll quit when the going gets tough, you can immediately stand out of the crowds with your effort and results. Your effort is visible, it’s attractive, it builds confidence. And those are all the great things that we don’t see much out there in real modern world.
The most attractive and intelligent women are confident too
I can’t tell you how many times I was more successful in attracting a beautiful intelligent woman than some of my friends – guys with beautiful hair. Actually I was almost always more successful. And I was already a bald guy! So what did these intelligent and attractive women saw on me being more attractive that the males that competed with me for their attention?
The short answer to that question is: The same thing that makes them so attractive and intelligent. The effort and confidence that comes with afford dues paid. Yes those most attractive women out there, no I don’t consider those naturally pretty and brainwashed – they ultimately won’t be attractive very long time. What they saw on my appearance and behavior was the confidence that is backed up by effort. Something very familiar to theirs confidence also.
Now, think about it Attractive Bald Man in making. Doesn’t that make sense? Yes, I know. It makes complete sense. We tend to gravitate to people who are like us. So beautiful, confident, intelligent women tend to gravitate to the same kind of men too. And now you know it my fellow bald friend. And I want you to apply it in your own attractive life. No excuses. No excuses about not having hair also. Get to work! Become Confident Attractive Bald Man!
Use that confidence
When you acquire the truest form of confidence Attractive Bald Man in making, put it to use. Try more things! Be more daring! Be bolder! Double your own rate of failure. Approach the most beautiful women with boldness and confidence. You have to put it to use. And your success will be certain. You’ll still fail, that’s certain. But I would be very, very, very surprised to not see you succeed ultimately on very large level.
And I believe we might see you some day walking with that most beautiful and intelligent woman out there and all those men with beautifull hair just being so jealous and full of question. Why that guy? Well, it happens to me on daily bases. Let’s make that same reality for you! Go rock on Attractive Bald Confident Man. You already know what to do! Enough said.
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Bald mans guide to attract beautiful women and get date fast – part 2
Bald mans guide to attract beautiful women and get date fast – part 3
Bald mans guide to attract beautiful women and get date fast – part 4
Bald mans guide to attract beautiful women and get date fast – part 5
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Hey Milan, Great video as always! This seems to be kind of a general video about confidence so I will ask a couple of questions that are bugging me and I cannot find a place for them.
I have a question that would naturally go in the “attractive bald man uses his enemies for motivation” video on your youtube channel, but I do not see it on this site. I get what you are saying about not suffering from insults about your baldness, and I agree that that is an excellent long term approach. However you didn’t really talk about how to handle the situation when it arises.
Occasionally I will get a mildly offensive – and rarely extremely hostile – comment about my baldness. When this happens, I find that my immediate reaction is to get really angry, depending on how hostile the insult was. I cannot help but get passive aggressive and have my mood be affected, so basically I just try to ignore it. I feel that this is too passive, but I don’t know what else to do. If I try to laugh with them, then I feel like a weak loser who accepts getting pushed around. I could try to fight back, but then it is obvious to everyone that I am suffering from the comment and I also come off as as much of an asshole as the offender. Do you have any ideas on this?
Also, I have been thinking about the whole “bald can be very attractive” thing, and I am still pretty convinced that it is bullshit. I understand that you are trying to be positive because so many bald guys are so depressed, but I am detecting a lack of sincerity. You acknowledge that there is nothing worse than a fat, bald man, and I completely agree. But why is it fat and bald? To me, it implies that bald is just as bad as fat. Now personally I don’t think that is the case, but it seems to be the general view of society on baldness.
To me, the process of becoming bald and attractive means that you become such a charismatic, fit and valuable person that the baldness no longer matters. But even if you are perfect and bald, you would still be more attractive with hair. Would an “attractive acne ridden man” be more attractive without acne? Of course. How about “an attractive short man” if he were tall? Absolutely. “An attractive pig faced man”? Not even a question. Baldness is like these things, but it also has a strong stigma attached so it is extra bad. I am just happy that we live in an age that cutting the hair very short is acceptable and possible – can you imagine having to walk around with long, bald hair?
I guess I just want you to admit that baldness is ugly and that it is not an advantage. It is not a death sentence to your attractiveness, but it is a big challenge that must be overcome. It is a bit saddening for me that we need to strive for perfection just so we can compete – baldness on an average guy will absolutely kill his attractiveness. The only way that I can see bald being an advantage is that it can drive you to try harder and that extra effort winds up being worth more than having hair.
Boris, Thank you again for a great comment and fantastic questions! A lot of other young bald men will benefit from reading this. I love all the insights and questions you are giving me. They actually teach me what I need to focus on here. Thank you again Boris. Now let’s go into some of your questions. Also, my youtube chanel has videos that still didn’t apear on my website. I am trying to write an thorough article on those topics before I post them. And that keeps me pretty busy.
How to handle the situation when somebody clearly offends you as a bald guy?
Well, I can see this happening in high school for sure a lot! That’s rough. But also, if you ask almost every person how he thinks his years in high school were, he will tell you it was a ridiculous experience. Me included. High school is such an hostile, bulshit environment that only keeps kids depressed. Everybody is trying to feel better by offending anybody with some especially beauty flaws – yes baldness – big one. It’s only four years guys, hang in there! It will be over soon! And than forget it as fast as you can. Those who were offending you the most will eventually turn into the biggest loosers! Guaranteed!
This kind of making fun and offending when you’re bald can still go on in college. But much, much less. Well, at this point, if somebody offends you because you’re bald, he is symply, clearly an idiot and life will most likelly beat him for it. Don’t associate with people like this. When adults offend other adults because of some appearance like baldness, there is something very wrong with them. Run away from them! This are toxic people that will eventually be punished for it in other parts in their life. And most likelly, these are the dumm high school kids who were the bullies. Unfortunately, they don’t realize, that now, here, it’s not an high school anymore. It’s real life.
So Boris. The handling of this situation is pretty simple. Not easy always. Look straight into offenders eyes, smile, don’t say anything and turn around and leave. That’s the perfect way to tell them: You are pretty dumm buddy and you’ll eventually pay for it! So don’t laugh with them, let them laugh first. Than after they stopped, you smile and look into their yes and leave. Avoid them for the future like a plague. This are very toxic people!
Is bald and being attractive just a bulshit?
First exactly like I said Boris, there is nothing worst than fat bald guy. However this also aplyes to guys with hair. There is nothing worst than a fat good looking guy with hair. Ask every pretty girl out there what she thinks about fat people. Now, some fat people have medical problems and they have a perfect reason to be fat. And I don’t mean this about those people.
But, in our modern society, where everything is plentiful and life is good, and there is nothing wrong with you and you’re still fat? Than, well you lack self discipline, you’re lazy. And that’s a turn off. And a big one! Anyway, I don’t want to bad mouth fat people here. It’s not my style.
So is bald attractive nonsense?
I talk about this on the front page of my website Boris little bit. Basically, yes, we do have a beauty flaw. Baldness is a beauty flaw. And other people know it. Yes I am bald, I have to have it rough. Yes? Yes, I should have it rough. But what if I don’t have it rough? What is the reason for it? Why people find people with flaws who manage to mentally get through it more attractive than other people? It’s a character thing. How many times an attractive woman looks at an attractive guy in the store with hair rather than looks at you? While this still happens, it doesn’t mean she find you unattractive. The guy with a hair is probably little bit more pleasing to the eye in that moment. I agree to some point with that.
Now, create a work environment where this beautiful woman interacts with both of you – good looking confident guy with hair and good looking bald confident guy. What do you think happens. Yes, it’s easy to be good looking confident guy with hair. It’s not that easy to be good looking confident guy without hair. I believe this is what made beautiful women in my environment prefer me to guys with hair. See, Boris, the beauty is fleeting. The guys with great genes are in magazines. But it’s just the moment of glory, that ultimatelly is not very important in large scheme of life.
Boris, you say:
The only way that I can see bald being an advantage is that it can drive you to try harder and that extra effort winds up being worth more than having hair.
Yes Boris. And what is wrong with that? Everything valuable in life takes effort. And life is a marathon. And everybody, bald and not bald better get used to effort. But, not that many will. And that’s where opportunity lies guys! Hard work beats talent every time!Be a bald man on mission! Boris you are saying us bald guys have to work harder on our selves and that being wrong and not fair. That’s advantage in my world.
Now you end your comment with a statement that bald is indeed ugly.
And I understand your point. But fortunately and I strongly believe it is by conscious effort and attitude, that doesn’t apply to me. Since I stopped hating my bald had, I had always had a fantastic feedback on my baldness. And I strongly believe every bald man can achieve the same.
Boris, I could go on and on about this. But I hope this helps little bit.